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SoftlyLit

22 / M / straight / Single

Richardson, Texas

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Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Gemini but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Languages
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently)

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I am funny, smart, and honest.

My Self-Summary

Let's see, I'm probably a slightly biased person to be talking about myself, but I think I'm fun to be around. One of the things I'm best at, and one of the things I most enjoy, is making people laugh. I have a broad sense of humor, ranging from good (and bad) puns, to ridiculous stories.
I try to be very honest with people that I'm close to, and will almost always speak my mind, even if sometimes I probably shouldn't. Being honest also means that I pretty much don't ever lie, even perhaps when some people would think I should.
I used to wrestle. I don't anymore, but it was a huge part of my life in high school, and helped to shape who I am today. The sport, and my coach, taught me about loyalty, respect, and how to believe in myself.
I appreciate routine in some aspects of my life, but I also enjoy doing new things, like cooking new foods, or going to places or events I haven't been before.

The first things people usually notice about me

Physically: My Curly Hair
Personality: My sense of humor

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I mostly read Sci-Fi and Fantasy, but am willing to read pretty much anything. My favorite authors are Roger Zelazny and Isaac Asimov. Some of my favorite series: Chronicles of Amber, Foundation, Dune, and recently Wheel of Time

I like lots of different types of music, my favorite band is Queen

The six things I could never do without

Family
Friends
God
Laughter
Computer
My heart

You should message me if

I'm looking for someone that can appreciate my sense of humor, who will be honest with me, and is willing to open up and talk about how she feels about things. She needs to be Christian, in my opinion differences in core religious beliefs aren't healthy for a serious relationship. If you aren't Christian, feel free to message me, I always enjoy talking and making new friends, but it won't go further than that. If you want to know anything else just ask, I respond to all my messages.