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Softlywhispered

44 Tarpon Springs, FL Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 30–47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 20
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Medicine
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I will open with this: If you're a married man looking to cheat on his partner, **PLEASE** bypass my profile. I'm not interested. I'm living in an open, Poly relationship and it works for me, for us. I believe in open communication with my spouse.

I did a journey of self discovery a handful of years ago: a cross country drive that allowed me to shake off the dust, to come into my own. It gave me an insight into who I really am, and I found out that I really like the person who I was meant to be.

I'm sometimes told that I come across as brash and intimidating, but when you look beneath that surface you'll see me for what I really am; a compassionate woman who lives life in every breath. I don't play the "nice" game. I don't think that it truly serves any purpose. I'm not -mean-, but I do speak my mind, and I don't kiss ass.

What I'm looking for friends. PERIOD. I've got a life partner, I'm looking for folks to socialize with. However, don't assume I'll meet you straight away, I take a while to go from email here, to giving out any other form of contact. Please don't rush things, you won't get very far.

I'm the kind of woman who appreciates having fun, but not being reckless. Who likes to enjoy life, but does so at an easy pace. I'm laid back, casual and comfortable with life. There's no reason to always be in a rush, but if I want something done, I expect it to -get done-, even if I have to do it myself. I'm not high pressure or high maintenance, I just have high expectations for myself, and faith in others.

A direct quote from someone I once met: "You really are unlike anyone I've ever met before. You're as open and honest as you seem."

I am a sensualist, creative and vibrant
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Changing my self! I've lost a -lot- of weight over the last year ( 100 pounds to date ) and am happy to say that while I loved the old me, I LOVE the new me!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. My job has allowed me to hone this skill, and I'm the kind of person you can tell anything to, and trust me... people do.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm tall, I'm busty, and I've got a hell of a figure. I've got very striking eyes, and apparently my laugh is very.. very .. unique.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I enjoy reading ,it is one of my favorite past times. Some of my favorite Authors are Mercedes Lackey, Laurell K. Hamilton Katie McAllister, Kim Harrison and Tara Sue Me they're women who can spin a good tale and write delicious erotic prose.

Movies get to me though, I LOVE a good psychological thriller, but GORROR or splatter porn - Not my thing. Movies like "Paranormal Activity 1-3 (4 sucked, but 4.5 - just came out in January 2014 was REALLY a good tie up) are a great set up, Insidious: chapter 2, The Possession of Emily Rose, Devil: These all had great ideas, they set out, told the story, had the timing and did it right, but if it's just a slasher flick. *yawn* I always find myself telling the tv how stupid that girl is for going off alone, Or those two kids for going into the bunk to have sex.

My music tastes vary all over the place, I really do like -anything- from folk, to filk, rock to r&b. However my phone is filled with New Age & world music because this is what I use when I work. I like having a huge library to select from, something that will allow my clients to drift away. One of my absolute favorite musicians is Deva Premal, who does a lot of Tibentan Chant set to music. I suppose the other is Lifescapes Music, I'm sure you know them, they're the little boxes you see at Target or Walmart, where you can "sample" the Cd. They've got some great relaxation CD's, I swear I have everyone of them! I'm also a HUGE fan of Hawaiian Slack Key Guitar.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A quiet evening on the water, a well written book, conversation with a good friend, a quality meal, really good lingerie/corset & silk hosiery.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Energy work. How do people perceive me when they know what I do for a living. Why do some people constantly post on FB about things they can never hope to change? Why are men's sizes so straight forward when women's are all whopperjawed.

Yeah, I can be all over the place.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
In the autumn, I'm at Howl-O-Scream, doing my favorite past time, scaring people!

Any other time of the year, I can be found doing a myriad of things. Either going to a Yelp event, spending time at work, Or spending time with friends and family. One thing you won't catch me at is the Club. I am -not- a fan of that scene... Unless it's a drag show. Then I'll be there!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Yes, You probably -have- seen me some place before.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...You like intelligent women, enjoy people who have diverse backgrounds and are looking for friendship. If you like to laugh and Your number one goal should be getting to know me, not getting in my pants.

... You want to start a -CONVERSATION- with me. "Hey.." or "Hi" or even "How are you?" ...isn't going to cut it, neither is some lame compliment. Start a conversation, witty banter, flirt, but for the love of all that's holy... don't just leave a greeting!

...You should NOT message me if you're a judgmental ass who is offended by a woman who speaks her mind. My preferences are just that MINE and I own them. Yours are YOURS... accept it and move on. Telling someone to get over themselves show exactly how far you need to grow. /rant

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