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46 Denver, CO Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 38–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 17
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English, French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm here to apply for the position of partner, ski partner, camping partner, concert partner, part time handyman...with tons of his own tools, personal performer and chef, you have advertised here on this site. Your personal "honey do" list annihilator. I tried to attach my resume here somewhere but was unable. I thought about pasting it but decided it might clutter up the page a bit with its color and breadth. ;-)

Believe it or not, I WILL go to those chick flicks WITH you. I might even shed a tear or two, and not be afraid to admit it. I am one of those few men out there comfortable enough with his own sexuality that will join you while in public and check other men out WITH you. And have his own opinions about said men. I will always open a door for you, help you off with your coat, or pull out your chair. Unless you request that I not, if the situation doesn't work for you.

I grew up all over the place. A few years overseas as a youngin. A few more on the east coast. Yes, Pops was a military man. Joined the Navy myself after High School and found myself in Wisconsin later studying theatre/technical direction. That nomadic lifestyle did put a dent into my friend base, but the culture I was fed and devoured has grown me into a fine specimen of a man who understands and appreciates all that is beautiful in this world.

I WILL get dressed up with you and go downtown to the theatre, symphony or even opera if you desire. Or dress down to my flannels and catch a show at the Larimer Lounge, Lions Lair or Benders Tavern. Sitting at home cooking you a nice dinner to later sit down for a foot rub (for yours not mine) and a movie is not beyond the realm of possibilities either. NO, I do not have a foot fetish. Pampering the women in my life is a priority for me.

YES, I do have kids. But you know what? They do not require all of my time. My weekends are always free, and even a few nights a week if I so desire. At 10 and 16 they are quite independent, more so every day. And their mother is a part of their lives. I do get me time. Or maybe even US time, and lots of it. They even have their own apartment, so to speak. I am a firm believer in balance, and have been pretty successful at achieving it.

This...ME, may all sound too good to be true. I can assure that it is not. There are still some good guys out there. Men that appreciate and respect women. We know how to be exclusive, if/when we get there. We do exist. We are NOT Snuffalupagi. Don't know if I spelled that right. I couldn't find him in the dictionary.

Thanks for reading! Hope to hear from you...
What I’m doing with my life
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Existing. Caring for myself. Listening to and making music. Jumping on the trampoline. Time in the darkroom. Riding my bike. Screaming down a nice wide blue. Cooking, with wine in hand...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am one of those free form cooks. I have a decent collection of cookbooks, but I rarely open them. When I make breakfast or dinner, I usually can pull some stuff out of the fridge and go to town. You will not be disappointed. I'm also really good at fixing things. Anything that's broken. Otherwise, I am a multifaceted kind of guy that has experience doing a little bit of everything.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Well, no one really tells me. But I do know that I am always open to meeting new people. I am not shy by any stretch. Life is too short to not be yourself. And I have uniquely beautiful brown eyes. I have a quick wit and am always quick with a joke. I love to laugh...even at myself.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Recently re-read, and will surely read and re-read over and over again "True Love...a practice for awakening the heart" by Thich Nhat Hanh. "The Secret of Letting Go". Read it, it will change your life.
Movies? Ugh! Where to begin... The Princess Bride, Logan's Run, Contact, The Usual Suspects, Melancholia, Momento. There is no end to this list really...
Music? Whoa...currently into Shawn Mullins, Ryan Adams, The Motet, Young the Giant, Civil Wars, anything Techno (I love cleaning house with some way up loud) Ani DiFranco. But there really is no style of a music I DON'T like. Brandi Carlile makes my heart hurt.
Food? Anything but boring.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Hmmm....sunlight...water...thunderstorms...levity...a good guitars. There should be no limit.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What exactly it will take to get my fellow drivers to relax while on the road. And who was the rocket scientist that thought up online dating.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Happy hour at the HT anyone? A live show dancing my ass off. Unwinding/decompressing/recovering after the weeks workload.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am in Chers "If I could turn back time" Video. There...I admitted it.
You should message me if
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You don't NEED someone, but WANT someone. You understand and believe in the power of communication, laughter, music, art and food. And something...anything in this profile resonated with you. Its just a profile, but it also might be a doorway to a great thing.

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