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51 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 26
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
5' 0" (1.52m)
Body Type
Not at all
Judaism and laughing about it
Post grad
Has kid(s)
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've been on a long road of recovery and discovery. I've loved previously but was not fully able to share myself or receive. Now I am. I've got nothing to hide and deserve to be loved. I have so much to give and am open to receive. No baggage or unreasonable expectations. I'm already fulfilled. I'd like to be cherished and adored by someone else who has arrived and wants to collaborate and share both mundane and wondrous moments. : )

Please only contact me if you live close, have time and resources to devote to creating a loving relationship, and want to take me on a date and treat me like the most beautiful woman in the world.

Thanks to okc and craigslist I've discovered how generous and special I am. Not interested in extensive texting. Thank you for reading my profile.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
See above. Professionally I'm accomplished and invested in a startup, contribute to bettering the future by creating tech community, education and innovation.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
being the hostess with the mostest. I love to cook and eat! I'm incredibly resourceful and recognize what is missing in order to make a project, product, event or group dynamic work. I'm great at collaborating, creating community and coaching.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm short, busty, fleshy and soft, Jewish, from the East Coast, smart, funny, geeky and cuddly. I'm told I'm sweet :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I like reading about the philosophy of software development and design. I've read everything by Chaim Potok. I enjoy much of Neil Gamen's books, both graphic novels and others. I'd love to discuss Jaren Lanier's You are not a Gadget manifesto.

Movies: Scott Pilgrim, KickAss, Brothers Bloom, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Stranger than Fiction, Brick, After Hours, Baby Its You, Me Natalie. Harold and Maude remains my all time favorite movie, perhaps because it portrays my philosophy and has helped to keep me going. I'll watch pretty much anything Woodie Allen directed, and anything John Cusack is in.

Music: Bob Dylan, Modest Mouse, Neutral Milk Hotel, Animal Collective, Beck, Radiohead, White Stripes, Owls, No Age, The National, Matt Sheehy, Minor Threat, The Beatles, Los Campesinos, Sun 0))), Nirvana, Arctic Monkeys, Dirty Projectors, Battles, Hella, Mountain Goats, Japandroids, Deerhunter (many of these are bands my son curates for me)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I can do without everything except loving my children...however, these things help alot, not necessarily in this order
1. Adoration
2. Silliness, laughter, playfulness
3. Forgiveness and compassion
4. Continuous learning
5. Emotional connection
6. Honesty
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Love and sex, spirituality, technology, innovation, communication
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Wanting to have a new experience to unwind after a busy week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm good at things you dream about and enjoy them just as much as you. I enjoy younger men, creativity in all forms, and older men who want to prove something to me.
You should message me if
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* You like to give foot massages and have good hands that can fix things.
* You are straightforward in your communication, and articulate
* You are looking for someone for fun, quality moments, mutual collaboration
* You enjoy challenging and interesting conversations about social, political, and religious issues.