In general, I'm happy with my life and with the direction it's
headed. Big IMPORTANT DETAIL about my life: I'm a polyamorous guy
in an open marriage to a truly wonderful woman, with whom I have
two small children. We are very happily devoted to each other and
to our little people, but just don't feel a need to limit each
other to each other. If this isn't a part of your world view, you
may want to skip over me entirely.
What I’m doing with my life
Presently, I spend a lot of energy doing my part in raising my
children. I'm also working on starting up my own small business.
I’m really good at
-Spontaneously creating tasty food without going to the store for
-Working with leather.
-Carrying on a decent conversation.
-Finding unintended nasty double meanings in everything I hear.
The first things people usually notice about me
I smile readily and make a lot of eye contact while speaking with
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have a thing for ancient epic poetry, Sci-Fi, historic fiction.
All in readable format, I should point out. I don't have a TV
anymore. At some point, we realized we hadn't actually plugged it
into the wall for something like a year, so it went away. Now we
have a little more space in the living room instead.
For music and food, my opinions are about the same. I like novelty
and I'll try almost anything, excepting country music and
The six things I could never do without
Physical contact with other people
I spend a lot of time thinking about
All manner of oddball crap that my erratic brain decides to fixate
on. Anything from pondering the origins of various domesticated
plant species to attempting to find purpose in accepted cultural
norms and behaviors. Sometimes I can't follow my own train of
On a typical Friday night I am
Most often, I can be found at home with my family, and often a
friend or two.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I think I touched on this one pretty well in the summary at the top
of the page. If you spend the effort to get to know me beyond
sending messages back and forth, you'll find I don't try to conceal
much about myself. I guess I might also add that I'm a little
You should message me if
-You're openminded regarding the ways in which relationships can
successfully be configured.
-If the words friend and lover sound suspiciously similar in their
meanings to you.
-If you're a poly person who might want to find some like-minded
-If you'd like to know a little more about me.