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45 M Toronto, Ontario, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 32–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 3:02pm
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and very serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I'm a really tall man. Six foot four inches tall. People say, “hey, you are one tall dude.” Yup, I am. Suffice to say that fitting into small cars is a drag.

A bit more about me. I'm gregarious and warmhearted. I'm at ease in my own skin and enjoy having fun with great people. I adore dogs and people who get why. Good conversation and red wine put a smile on my face. I'm equally comfortable eating Indian in little India or having dinner in an upscale restaurant. Playing soccer is something I'm into, though I'm a tad clumsy at it.

I've traveled in Africa, Asia and Europe. I love bands like The Clash and The National; I was lucky enough to score tickets to see the National at Massey Hall in early April of 2014. I own a nifty old house close to the Junction - Runnymede and St Clair. I'm a bit of nerd. But nerd is not a dirty word in my family. My interests include: documentary films, science fiction, CBC radio, Nuite Blanche, being active outside, urban things, science, art, geeky games, economics and lots of other stuff. I read a wide variety of non-fiction and have an uncanny habit of falling asleep on top of my books. Needless to say, lending me a book is never a good idea. I've been known to shatnerize songs when doing karaoke. It's a special talent. Actually, I often sing out of key as well.

What am I looking for? Foremost, I'm looking for a great connection and a partner to build with. I'd like to find someone I can share a laugh with and talk to. I'm not interested in casual hook ups.

An important political message:

Many of us have long suspected that Stephen Harper eats babies. I know, I'm openly slandering our Prime Minister on a dating web site. Still, all is fair in love and war. I feel it is my duty to defend our children from this evil menace. Hey, would you let this man baby-sit your kids? I think not!

And we gotta talk to the Rob Ford guy. Really, dude, crack? Cringe-worthy, indeed. As an ambassador of Toronto I just gotta say this man does not represent the rest of us.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a Service Engineer in Medical Diagnostic Instrumentation and Automation. Essentially, I'm a robot repair guy. That's what my friends say I should tell people. I recently got into a masters program. I'm doing part-time studies and working full-time.

Maintaining a zero balance on my credit cards. I'm one of those people who has a plan when it comes to that stuff called money.

Talking about interesting things with my friends. Taking the piss with my friends.

Doing a bit of gardening here and there. Which involves chasing squirrels away and cleaning up cat poop. Actually, the cats from next door have co-oped my yard and lounge about. What do I do? I curse them and then give them a pat. Call me passive aggressive. Someday I'm going to have to get a dog again.

Travel is a privilege I'm grateful for, but I don't define myself through it. A few of the places I've seen include: Cambodia, Burma, Japan, Switzerland, France, Tanzania, Portugal. India and Cuba are on my bucket list. I was in SE Asia in May of this year. I saw most of Vietnam over a couple of weeks, and went back to Phnom Penh and Vientiane briefly; how things change if 10 years, I tell you.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm handy and good at fixing things.
I'm a good kisser.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm easy going and friendly.
I look younger than my actual age.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music: Shoe gaze and wall of sound type stuff, Folk, Blue Grass, Punk, Jazz - bands like Blue Rodeo, Wilco, The National, Pixies, Broken Social Scene, The Clash, The Dandy Warhols, Daughter, Pulp, Yo La Tengo, Lush, Bruce Springsteen, Jesus And Mary Chain - the concert in 2012 was a blast, Sonic Youth, Arcade Fire, Simple Minds, OMD, Gordon Lightfoot, New Pornographers, She and Him, The Smiths, Johnny Cash, Love and Rockets, Dead Kennedys, Echo And The Bunnymen, Stereo Lab, Leonard Cohen, My Bloody Valentine.

I'm a bit of a music nerd.

Jim Cuddy and Greg Keelor signed a poster for me. Its framed and on my wall where it should be. Its very cool and you can't have it.

Things I like to read: Saturday Globe and Mail, King Leopold's Ghost (by Adam Hochschild), Blood Diamonds, The Corporation, Heart Of Darkness, Treasure Island (hey, it was a big deal when I was 14).

Movies and Shows: High Fidelity, The Thin Red Line, The Wire, Battle Royale, Deadwood, PBS Frontline, Nature Of Things, Lost In Translation, Dexter, Blade Runner, Star Wars (the old school versions), Dig (music documentary about the Dandy Warhols and Brian Jonestown Massacre), The Deer Hunter, Dawn Of The Dead, City Of Ghosts, Boogie Nights, There Will Be Blood, Contact, No Country For Old Men, Alien, Colbert report, South Park, Monty Python.

Food: Vietnamese, Indian, Korean, Japanese, Chinese, Middle Eastern, Greek, chocolate. I'm open to trying anything when it comes to food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Dogs are great. About two years ago I had a lovely Springer Spaniel named Wiley. She made it to 15 years, which is good for any dog. I think dogs teach you how to be a better person. Lately I've been thinking about adopting a dog. Soon, perhaps. Hmmm.

My cell phone, music, good coffee in the morning.

My amazing friends and family.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Social justice and international aid.
Getting a dog some day.
The dust bunnies festering under my couch.
Plotting against evil doing neoconservatives.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hanging with a good friend some place.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I buy my boxers on sale.
You should message me if
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You are warm, cute and smart.
You are honest and not flaky.
Someone who loves dogs.