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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 41–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:49pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi, I'm Jon. Nice to meet you.

I greatly appreciate anything in this world that makes me smile, laugh or feel something genuine. I'm responsible and career minded. I'm young at heart and I like women with both strong opinions and a strong sense of self.
Someone who can appreciate a good laugh. Someone keen on living a life a bit more interesting whenever possible.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've been a creative director in advertising for many years and recently opened up my own shop in sunny Oakland with the intention of being a part of the exciting rebirth of that great and often overshadowed city. I live in the east bay so i can be near my two energetic boys whom I love dearly.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being comfortable in my own skin. Making people around me feel relaxed and comfortable in theres. Causing you laugh at moments when you probably shouldn't be. Looking at things from multiple perspectives. My job. This great trick I can consistently do with a baseball cap.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I tend to smile a lot. I also tend not to take myself too seriously, and I'm drawn to people, places and things that do the same. Yes, a serious conversation can be an amazing thing, but if I were going to drop dead at a given moment, I'd much rather have it happen during a good solid laugh than a heavy conversation about global warming. I'm just sayin'.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books. Love non fiction and history. I'm not ashamed to admit that I've been dyslexic for my entire life, so reading, as much as I enjoy it, has always been a bit of an arduous process.

Movies. Documentaries up the wazoo. Coen brothers anything, Wes Anderson some, any epic period peice. American Beauty, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, To Kill a Mockingbird,

Shows. Daily Show. Fallon. Nathan for You. Breaking Bad. The Wire. Walking Dead. Drunk History

I love live music. I grew up a punk rock kid in NY, but my love and appreciation for music is broad. Everything from alternative to old 70's reggae and rocksteady to drum and bass to country to pop. It's all good (Well, almost all. ha). Taking in live music and supporting people who play it has always been super important to me.

I also collect and play ukuleles. Something I've done since 1999. Nothing Hawaiian, just some old punk ditties, Bowie, reggae classics and 80's and 90's pop. It's like wooden prozac for me.

Food. Yum.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Chamomile tea.
2. Quality bedding.
3. My iPhone
4. Kindness.
5. music.
6. my boys.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Staying in the moment. Or should I say, trying to stay in the moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either with my boys explaining to them why we can't watch the bulk of the movies they want to watch, or maybe on a fun date with you. Depends on the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm terrified of splinters. That's right, I'm splinterphobic... There, I said it... It's a curse....
You should message me if
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