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52 M Lafayette, CA

My Details

Last Online
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5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Hi, I'm Jon. Nice to meet you.

I'm responsible and career minded. I enjoy anything that makes me smile, laugh or feel something genuine. I'm young at heart and I like women with both strong opinions and a strong sense of self.
Someone who can appreciate a good laugh.
Someone keen on living a life a bit more interesting whenever possible.
What I’m doing with my life
I've been blessed with a great freelance career in San Francisco which gives me the ability to be both creative and selective with the projects I take on. I live in the east bay so i can be near my two boys.
I’m really good at
Making people around me feel relaxed and comfortable. Looking at things from multiple perspectives. My job. This great trick I can consistently do with a baseball cap.
The first things people usually notice about me
I tend to smile a lot. I also tend not to take myself too seriously, and I'm drawn to people, places and things that do the same. Yes, a serious conversation can be an amazing thing, but if I were going to drop dead at a given moment, I'd much rather have it happen during a good solid laugh than a heavy conversation about global warming. I'm just sayin'.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books. Love non fiction and history. I've been dyslexic my whole life, so reading, as much as I like it, has always been a bit of an arduous process.

Movies. Documentaries up the wazoo. Coen brothers anything, Wes Anderson, any epic period peice. American Beauty, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, To Kill a Mockingbird,

Shows. Game of Thrones, Sons of Anarchy, Breaking Bad. The Wire. Walking Dead

I love live music. I grew up a punk rock kid in NY, but my love and appreciation for music is broad. Everything from alternative to old 70's reggae and rocksteady to drum and bass to country to pop. It's all good (Well, almost all. ha). Taking in live music and supporting people who play it has always been super important to me.

I also collect and play ukuleles. Something I've done for about 12 years now. Nothing Hawaiian, just some old punk ditties, Bowie, reggae classics and 80's and 90's pop. It's like wooden prozac for me.

Food. Yum.
The six things I could never do without
1. Chamomile tea.
2. Quality bedding.
3. My iPhone
4. Kindness.
5. music.
6. my boys.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Staying in the moment. Or should I say, trying to stay in the moment.
On a typical Friday night I am
Working hard to not make it terribly typical. But, I do also love a good solid movie night at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm terrified of splinters. That's right, I'm splinterphobic... There, I said it... It's a curse....
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 42–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
- You'd like to say hello.
- You see any ridiculously glaring typos in this bio.
- You're able to meet someone in a friendly way, where the only expectation is that you're meeting someone new.