I work to live, but I don’t live to work. I am self employed and have been since I started my adult working career over 20 years ago. So I work to afford me a comfortable lifestyle, albeit not extravagant. I love children although I do not have any of my own. My view of an ideal mate has changed and matured over the years. I can say with some amount of certainty that my tastes are broader in many respects, however narrower when it comes to drama and games. I’ve lived that life and I am less tolerant and now I am looking for something More substantial and someone with similar sensibilities.
I don’t value ideas and ideals as much as I do real and genuine people. The idea of religion isn’t appalling, it’s just not appealing. I believe in the actions and values people live by not just the ones they believe in. I believe that the journey is as important and sometimes more, than the actual destination and that if you don’t look around, stop and smell the roses, sit and enjoy a meal, listen and learn you’ll have missed a whole lot.