Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
"To live outside the law, you must be honest."
So, let's be honest:
I am already in a committed, live-in relationship that I have no
intention of abandoning. However, for reasons that I am happy to
share at the right time, I am also looking here for other
I understand how that makes me look and that the vast majority of
users will steer well clear of me. However, I am hopeful that there
are at least a few women who are in similar situations, are
non-judgmental, or are otherwise at least curious to know more
about my situation and what I'm proposing.
If that is you, welcome! If not, best of luck finding what you seek
For those still reading, I am a professional, educated man living
and working in downtown DC. I don't show my face in my profile
picture for obvious reasons, but I have dark hair and brown eyes,
and am tall and lean (6'2" and about 170 lbs.).
I am safe, clean, respectful, appreciative, well-read, and
well-travelled. I am perfectly comfortable in jeans; I am perfectly
comfortable in a tuxedo; and, yes, I own both.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Okay, I cannot say what I'm "doing with my life" in the space
allotted. So I'll use this opportunity to address another matter:
Yes, I know I'm missing an "e" in my username. It's a typo. I'd fix
it if I could, but it's too late now.
Actually, I'd change my username altogether if I could. I did not
put much thought into it, as may be obvious!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking meat medium rare.
Using a wine key.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height, I suppose. And that I look a good deal younger than I
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
If I honestly listed the things I could never do without, you would
not think well of me. I am afraid they are mostly vices!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Well, maybe not you specifically -- not yet.
But about who out there may be looking for something similar, and
how to find and connect with her. If that's you, help us both out
and drop me a note?
Also, there are a shocking number of people who appear to think the
earth is bigger than the sun. I hope some of you are being ironic.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out at a nice restaurant. Somewhere along the way, and without even
being aware of it at the time, I think I became a bit of a food
I didn't mean for it to happen! Yet I think it can't be
(But I hate that word "foodie" -- it makes me cringe.)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Aside from what I've already admitted above?
Must be this: I sing in the shower, uninhibitedly.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are a woman in the DC area and interested in exploring your
physical side with a safe, sane, professional man. I don't really
like to refer to this as "casual sex," because for me it is not
casual at all! But at the same time, I don't want to mislead: as I
mentioned up top, I am in a relationship that will always take
Or, hell, message me if you're bored, can't sleep, or know a good
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