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Songful

23 / F / gay / Single

Seattle, Washington

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
Looking For
Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Sign_Language (Poorly)

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I am smart, caring, and ambitious.

My Self-Summary

I love computers, gadgets of all kinds, reading sci-fi, figuring out how things work, and xkcd. I love music, good food, and laughter. I'm an introvert, but I'm quite social in low-key settings. I'm fascinated by how complex people are. I care a lot.

What I’m doing with my life

I have an awesome job in technology and I love my work. Outside of that, I sing in a few choirs, do volunteer work with GLBTQ youth, and hang out with friends.

Lately I've been trying to get outside more. I like hiking but have never been very athletic, so I'm working on that. Also, I'm taking swing dancing lessons!

I’m really good at

inventing really fruity and delicious mixed drinks, serious conversations, computers, helping people think through things, cooking italian food, getting nerdy jokes.

The first things people usually notice about me

Appearance: my hair! It's very curly.

Personality: that I'm delightfully geeky.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books
Some all-time favorites include: Lying, a Metaphorical Memoir, A Wrinkle in Time, Microserfs, and everything Octavia Butler has ever written. I also have a soft spot for YA Sci-Fi/Fantasy novels.

Movies
I love the HBO film version of Angels in America, does that count? In general I tend to like angsty and/or gay teen movies (Saved!, CAMP, Mean Girls, etc). More recently, I LOVED Wall-E.

Music
Broadway soundtracks, the Indigo Girls, Girlyman, Dar Williams, Brandi Carlile, Ryanhood, The Mountain Goats, Neutral Milk Hotel, Casey Stratton, R.E.M., Blue Scholars, Moshav, choral music, and (major guilty pleasure) Mika.

Food
I love most any kind of food. Om nom nom.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What kind of technology everyone will be using in 5 years (or 20). Where I've been and where I'm going, in a general life kind of way. Cool stuff I should go check out in Seattle one of these days.

On a typical Friday night I am

Taking off a little early from work then having a fabulous dinner with friends. Or going to one of the many great theaters in this town.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Before I finished school, I always felt like I was old for my age. But now that I'm part of Real Adult Society, I feel young and stupid all the time. I'm trying to learn to enjoy that. :)