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Songpasser

56 F Port Townsend, WA

My Details

Last Online
Jan 19
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Okay), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am creative, adventuresome, eyes and heart (broke) open to the joy (and challenge) of being alive at this planet time, giving my gifts in service of the Great Turning and en-joy-ing as I am uniquely able. Settling into Port Townsend after most of life in Seattle and Latin America, enjoying a wild and wonderful ride of creating community at the Port Townsend EcoVillage. I'm grateful for a healthy active body and spirit, for the gifts of a few close friendships and many evolved, inspiring people in my life, of songs and laughter shared freely. I'm spiritually nourished by wild nature and deeply connected to my beloved Cascadia home, cradled by community, exploring new freedoms. I am the mother of two wonderful creative adult children, a songstress, savorer, sensual, spontaneous, kind, tender, genuine.

I seek balance: between work and play, silliness and seriousness, activity and quietude, solitude and companionship. I'm good at finding balance!

In relationship I'm looking for a healthy balance of autonomy and togetherness, differentiation and communion. I'm ready to meet in the middle, delight in the intimacy there, invite lightheartedness as well as tenderheartedness. Willing to stick in there with the communication through the bumpiness of our human imperfectness, drawing on NVC as a helpful tool. Let's both bring our best wisdom to the table and make a feast!

I am a language person (a wordee although not always wordy), fluent in Spanish (translator by profession), fairly able in French and Portuguese, fascinated by cultural essences.

I am also an em-bodied woman: dancer, yogini, sucker for a good snuggle or massage, health-conscious, fit, active and outdoorsy.

A full life, but missing a lover, a partner, special someone to share it with.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Creating community and building a house at the Port Townsend EcoVillage
Co-leading a community choir
Offering workshops on Singing in the Great Turning, combining group singing with the interactive group processes of Joanna Macy's Work That Reconnects
Working part time as translator
Enjoying time with friends and exploring my Cascadia home
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Songleading
Spanish language (translator by profession)
Giving neck massages
Thinking too much and worrying about the state of our pretty planet
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Water
Trees
Touch
Friends
Community
Singing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to prepare the children, coming generations, to be resilient and joyful in the face of the Great Unraveling and how I might contribute to the Great Turning.
Finishing building a house at the EcoVillage and what it will be like to live there
What fun delicious new songs I can learn and teach to my choir
How my life would be enriched by an intimate partner to share it with
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
No such thing as typical in my life now
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I've got lovely dimples just below my small(ish) waist
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 45–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
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Your interest is piqued by my profile information, see some overlap in our values and interests, and you'd like to explore if we might be compatible as friends, activity partners or maybe even a LTR, the latter being my goal.