A friend recently said that relationships at this time of life are a "meeting of integrities". We both know who we are and what we do and don't want, what we truly value. Hopefully it's a delightful process to explore and respect each others' integrity, given our full lives of experience behind us, and create something unique and beautiful where the two integrities come together.
I seek balance: between work and play, silliness and seriousness, activity and quietude, solitude and companionship. I'm good at finding balance!
In relationship I'm looking for a healthy balance of autonomy and togetherness, differentiation and communion. I'm ready to meet in the middle, delight in the intimacy there, invite lightheartedness as well as tenderheartedness. Willing to stick in there with the communication through the bumpiness of our human imperfectness, drawing on NVC as a helpful tool. Let's both bring our best wisdom to the table and make a feast!
I am a language person (a wordee although not always wordy), fluent in Spanish (translator by profession), fairly able in French and Portuguese, fascinated by cultural essences.
I am also an em-bodied woman: dancer, Pilates practitioner, yogini, sucker for a good snuggle or massage, health-conscious, fit, active and outdoorsy.
A full life, but missing a lover, a partner, special someone to share it with.
Co-leading a community choir
Offering workshops on Singing in the Great Turning, combining group singing with the interactive group processes of Joanna Macy's Work That Reconnects
Working part time as translator
Enjoying time with friends and exploring my bioregion
Spanish language (translator by profession)
Giving neck massages
Thinking too much and worrying about the state of our pretty planet
Finishing building a house at the EcoVillage and what it will be like to live there
What fun delicious new songs I can learn and teach to my choir
How my life would be enriched by an intimate partner to share it with