Finally got around to taking that four letter personality type test. Apparently I'm an INFJ, meaning slightly introverted, intuitive, and sometimes emotional. I think it's pretty accurate.
I'm in a polyamorous relationship and I'm looking for people who would be interested in exploring this lifestyle with me. Or at least aren't afraid of dating a guy that has more than one partner. I'm not looking for anything serious right away. Just a casual dating or fwb situation and if it grows into something more, I won't stop it. Also, just because I'm seeing one woman now doesn't mean you have to be involved with her too. Eventually we would like to add people to our relationship, including moving in together and treating it like a group marriage. That may not ever happen, but it's our ideal situation if we find the right people. Obviously we don't want to jump into that right away... the relationship must grow just like any other one would. Dating one or both of us and just letting things grow as they will.
We're completely open to swinging and FWB type relationships as well... at least until we find those perfect 1 or 2 others. Also, just because you're dating me (hypothetically) doesn't mean I expect total fidelity to me. You'd still be free to date other besides me/us as you like. I'm not the jealous type at all.
I'm a big fan of rock music but I'll listen to just about anything except most rap. Some of the older stuff is ok.
I have a motorcycle and ride it almost everyday, at least to and from work. There are few things that are better than the feelings I get riding it...
I'm also a very kinky person. I like having vanilla (non-kinky) partners as well, but serious bonus points if you're kinky. I'm experienced in a few different styles of bdsm and I enjoy pretty much anything related to it. Shibari and rope are my favorites. Overall I am a switch, but most of my experience is as a Dom. I'm very interested in exploring my sub side, but I haven't found the right Domme yet. So if you're a Domme or switch you should definitely message me, especially if you're rope oriented. If you're a sub that's fine too. I'm always looking for new experiences and people to practice my fetishes with. I have a fetlife profile if you want to check me out there, its the same screen name.
I'm a bit quirky and a bit of a geek. I enjoy pretty much anything sci/fi, especially Star Trek, Star Wars, and Doctor Who. I enjoy outdoor activities as well, but I don't go out as much as I would like. My time is kind of limited with my job.
I guess I should also mention that I'm a divorcee and have two kids. The kids live with their mother so I don't get much interaction with them. Soon we'll be living on opposite sides of the country anyway.