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29 Bremerton, WA Cis Man

Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Oct 7
Demisexual, Pansexual, Sapiosexual
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
Two-year college
Has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Update: I'm going to be away for a while. My job takes me out of the country from time to time and this is one of those times. I'll be back, and I'll try to reply as I can while I'm gone. Just don't except any messages right away.

Finally got around to taking that four letter personality type test. Apparently I'm an INFJ, meaning slightly introverted, intuitive, and sometimes emotional. I think it's pretty accurate.

I'm in a polyamorous relationship and I'm looking for people who would be interested in exploring this lifestyle with me. Or at least aren't afraid of dating a guy that has more than one partner. Note: I am not a unicorn hunter, meaning I'm not trying to find someone for my wife and I to share. I'm just looking for a casual dating situation and if it grows into something more, I won't stop it. One step at a time.

Just because you're dating me (hypothetically) doesn't mean I expect total monogamy to me. You'd still be free to date others as you like. I'm not the jealous type at all. Well that's not entirely true. I do feel jealousy at times, but the difference with me compared others is that I can recognize it, process it, figure out what the cause of it is, and let it go. Most of the time that requires me to talk to my partner(s) about it.

I wholeheartedly embrace open and honest communication with my partners, so if there is something bothering you I want to know about it. I also want to know what is working well. This way I can fix the problems before they get uncontrollable and I can keep doing what is working.

I'm a big fan of rock music but I'll listen to just about anything except most rap. Some of the older stuff is ok.

I have a motorcycle and ride it almost everyday, at least to and from work. There are few things that are better than the feelings I get riding it...

I can be a very kinky person. If your curious about that side of me, feel free to ask or check out my fetlife profile if you have one there. It's the same screen name.

I'm a bit quirky and a bit of a geek/nerd. I enjoy pretty much anything sci/fi. I enjoy outdoor activities as well, but I don't go out as much as I would like. My time is kind of limited with my job.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working a lot.
Exploring myself.
Working toward a new job where I can work fewer hours.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
BBQ, holding my liquor, cheering for a losing football team (I'm a raiders fan, so I'm really good at this one), boiling water with fission.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes most likely... or my tattoos if they're visible at the time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books - Fantasy (The Dark Tower Series, The Shannara Series or anything by Terry Brooks, The Troy Game Series, The Wayfarer Redemption series, The Hunger Games, Divergent. I'm reading A Song of Ice and Fire aka Game of Thrones now).
Music - Rock is my preference (Shinedown, Halestorm, Disturbed, Nickelback, Three Days Grace, Static X, System of a Down, Skillet, Flyleaf, Icon for Hire, The Letter Black, Paramore). I'll listen to just about anything... except most rap.
Movies - Action, Thriller, Horror, Sci Fi (Star Wars, Start Trek (everything without Shatner), The Expendables, Die Hard, Final Destination, Saw, etc.)
TV - Doctor Who, Dexter, Breaking Bad, The Walking Dead, House, CSI, Bones, White Collar, How I Met Your Mother, and Star Trek (Everything from The Next Generation on, the classic episodes are just too cheesy for me). Yeah, I'm a bit of a TV junkie.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could be a smartass (my usual form of expression) and say things like food, oxygen, etc. I think that would be rather obvious and pointless though. So here is a list of things I could survive without, but I wouldn't want to live without.

1. My job (or at least a job)
2. My motorcycle
3. The internet
4. Someone to love
5. Someone else to love
6. Sex, especially the kinky kind

4 and 5 can be physical, emotional, or both. It's all good to me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Wibbly wobbly timey wimey... stuff
How warp drive actually works
What I would do if I won the lottery
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home watching netflix, gaming, or reading. Sometimes I'll go out with friends or partners for dinner and/or a movie.
You should message me if
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You're ok with polyamory.
You've found something intriguing about my profile.