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28 Bremerton, WA Cis Man

Cis Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
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Demisexual, Pansexual, Sapiosexual
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Rather not say
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I have finally arrived in Bremerton. Right off the bat, I am pansexual. I'm more interested in women (or people who identify as feminine) than men, but I'll talk to anyone and see what happens.

Finally got around to taking that four letter personality type test. Apparently I'm an INFJ, meaning slightly introverted, intuitive, and sometimes emotional. I think it's pretty accurate.

I'm in a polyamorous relationship and I'm looking for people who would be interested in exploring this lifestyle with me. Or at least aren't afraid of dating a guy that has more than one partner. I'm not looking for anything serious right away. Just a casual dating or fwb situation and if it grows into something more, I won't stop it. Also, just because I'm seeing one woman now doesn't mean you have to be involved with her too. Eventually we would like to add people to our relationship, including moving in together and treating it like a group marriage. That may not ever happen, but it's our ideal situation if we find the right people. Obviously we don't want to jump into that right away... the relationship must grow just like any other one would. Dating one or both of us and just letting things grow as they will.

We're completely open to swinging and FWB type relationships as well... at least until we find those perfect 1 or 2 others. Also, just because you're dating me (hypothetically) doesn't mean I expect total fidelity to me. You'd still be free to date other besides me/us as you like. I'm not the jealous type at all.

I'm a big fan of rock music but I'll listen to just about anything except most rap. Some of the older stuff is ok.

I have a motorcycle and ride it almost everyday, at least to and from work. There are few things that are better than the feelings I get riding it...

I'm also a very kinky person. I like having vanilla (non-kinky) partners as well, but serious bonus points if you're kinky. I'm experienced in a few different styles of bdsm and I enjoy pretty much anything related to it. Shibari and rope are my favorites. Overall I am a switch, but most of my experience is as a Dom. I'm very interested in exploring my sub side, but I haven't found the right Domme yet. So if you're a Domme or switch you should definitely message me, especially if you're rope oriented. If you're a sub that's fine too. I'm always looking for new experiences and people to practice my fetishes with. I have a fetlife profile if you want to check me out there, its the same screen name.

I'm a bit quirky and a bit of a geek. I enjoy pretty much anything sci/fi, especially Star Trek, Star Wars, and Doctor Who. I enjoy outdoor activities as well, but I don't go out as much as I would like. My time is kind of limited with my job.

I guess I should also mention that I'm a divorcee and have two kids. The kids live with their mother on the east coast so I don't get much interaction with them.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working hard and playing harder
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
BBQ, holding my liquor, cheering for a losing football team (I'm a raiders fan, so I'm really good at this one), boiling water with fission.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes most likely... or my tattoos if they're visible at the time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - Fantasy (The Dark Tower Series, The Shannara Series or anything by Terry Brooks, The Troy Game Series, The Wayfarer Redemption series, The Hunger Games, Divergent. I'm reading Game of Thrones now).
Music - Rock (Shinedown, Halestorm, Disturbed, Nickelback, Three Days Grace, Static X, System of a Down, Skillet, Flyleaf, Icon for Hire, The Letter Black, Paramore)
Movies - Action, Thriller, Horror, Sci Fi (Star Wars, Start Trek -everything without Shatner), The Expendables, Die Hard, Final Destination, Saw, etc.)
TV - Doctor Who, Dexter, Breaking Bad, The Walking Dead, House, CSI, Bones, White Collar, Sons of Guns, How I Met Your Mother, and Star Trek (Everything from The Next Generation on, the classic episodes are just too cheesy for me). Yeah, I'm a bit of a TV junkie.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could be a smartass (my usual form of expression) and say things like food, oxygen, etc. I think that would be rather obvious and pointless though. So here is a list of things I could survive without, but I wouldn't want to live without.

1. My job (or at least a job)
2. My motorcycle
3. The internet
4. Someone to love
5. Someone else to love
6. Sex and bondage

4 and 5 can be physical, emotional, or both. It's all good to me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Wibbly wobbly timey wimey... stuff
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Most Fridays I'm at work late into the night. But if I'm not at work I'm usually at home watching netflix. I do like to go out, and when I do it's usually to a bar or pool hall to hang out with friends, have a few beers, and enjoy some debauchery.
You should message me if
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You're looking for anything from a new friend to a new connection.
You're not afraid of polyamory or at least open relationships.
You're open to bdsm/kink