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28 Bremerton, WA Cis Man

Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:31pm
Demisexual, Pansexual, Sapiosexual
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Open relationship
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Finally got around to taking that four letter personality type test. Apparently I'm an INFJ, meaning slightly introverted, intuitive, and sometimes emotional. I think it's pretty accurate.

I've been in this site for a while now, and it seems that 90% of the messages I send get ignored or the receiver doesn't reply. I don't say this to be an ass, but it's very frustrating when you actually read a profile (something that way too many people don't do), put thought and effort into it, and then don't get a reply of any kind. Even a simple 'not interested' would be better. So I'm going to ask that if I've liked you it's because I'm interested in at least chatting. I won't be sending as many first messages as I used to, but I will reply to every one I receive.

I'm in a polyamorous relationship and I'm looking for people who would be interested in exploring this lifestyle with me. Or at least aren't afraid of dating a guy that has more than one partner. Note: I am not a unicorn hunter. I'm not trying to find someone for my wife and I to share. I'm not looking for anything serious right away. Just a casual dating or fwb situation and if it grows into something more, I won't stop it. One step at a time.

Just because you're dating me (hypothetically) doesn't mean I expect total monogamy to me. You'd still be free to date others as you like. I'm not the jealous type at all.

I'm a big fan of rock music but I'll listen to just about anything except most rap. Some of the older stuff is ok.

I have a motorcycle and ride it almost everyday, at least to and from work. There are few things that are better than the feelings I get riding it...

I can be a very kinky person. If your curious about that side of me, feel free to ask.

I'm a bit quirky and a bit of a geek. I enjoy pretty much anything sci/fi. I enjoy outdoor activities as well, but I don't go out as much as I would like. My time is kind of limited with my job.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working a lot.
Exploring myself.
Trying to figure out if there is anyone else out there like me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
BBQ, holding my liquor, cheering for a losing football team (I'm a raiders fan, so I'm really good at this one), boiling water with fission.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes most likely... or my tattoos if they're visible at the time.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - Fantasy (The Dark Tower Series, The Shannara Series or anything by Terry Brooks, The Troy Game Series, The Wayfarer Redemption series, The Hunger Games, Divergent. I'm reading A Song of Ice and Fire aka Game of Thrones now).
Music - Rock is my preference (Shinedown, Halestorm, Disturbed, Nickelback, Three Days Grace, Static X, System of a Down, Skillet, Flyleaf, Icon for Hire, The Letter Black, Paramore). I'll listen to just about anything... except most rap.
Movies - Action, Thriller, Horror, Sci Fi (Star Wars, Start Trek (everything without Shatner), The Expendables, Die Hard, Final Destination, Saw, etc.)
TV - Doctor Who, Dexter, Breaking Bad, The Walking Dead, House, CSI, Bones, White Collar, How I Met Your Mother, and Star Trek (Everything from The Next Generation on, the classic episodes are just too cheesy for me). Yeah, I'm a bit of a TV junkie.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I could be a smartass (my usual form of expression) and say things like food, oxygen, etc. I think that would be rather obvious and pointless though. So here is a list of things I could survive without, but I wouldn't want to live without.

1. My job (or at least a job)
2. My motorcycle
3. The internet
4. Someone to love
5. Someone else to love
6. Sex

4 and 5 can be physical, emotional, or both. It's all good to me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Wibbly wobbly timey wimey... stuff
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At home watching netflix. Sometimes I'll go out with friends.
You should message me if
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You're ok with polyamory.
You've found something intriguing about my profile.