Finally got around to taking that four letter personality type test. Apparently I'm an INFJ, meaning slightly introverted, intuitive, and sometimes emotional. I think it's pretty accurate.
I'm in a polyamorous relationship and I'm looking for people who would be interested in exploring this lifestyle with me. Or at least aren't afraid of dating a guy that has more than one partner. Note: I am not a unicorn hunter, meaning I'm not trying to find someone for my wife and I to share. I'm just looking for a casual dating situation and if it grows into something more, I won't stop it. One step at a time.
Just because you're dating me (hypothetically) doesn't mean I expect total monogamy to me. You'd still be free to date others as you like. I'm not the jealous type at all. Well that's not entirely true. I do feel jealousy at times, but the difference with me compared others is that I can recognize it, process it, figure out what the cause of it is, and let it go. Most of the time that requires me to talk to my partner(s) about it.
I wholeheartedly embrace open and honest communication with my partners, so if there is something bothering you I want to know about it. I also want to know what is working well. This way I can fix the problems before they get uncontrollable and I can keep doing what is working.
I'm a big fan of rock music but I'll listen to just about anything except most rap. Some of the older stuff is ok.
I have a motorcycle and ride it almost everyday, at least to and from work. There are few things that are better than the feelings I get riding it...
I can be a very kinky person. If your curious about that side of me, feel free to ask or check out my fetlife profile if you have one there. It's the same screen name.
I'm a bit quirky and a bit of a geek/nerd. I enjoy pretty much anything sci/fi. I enjoy outdoor activities as well, but I don't go out as much as I would like. My time is kind of limited with my job.