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SonjaElen

31 / F / bisexual / Single

Toronto, Ontario, Canada

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Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.74m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Scorpio and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Income
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Dislikes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Esperanto (Fluently), French (Fluently), German (Fluently), Sign_Language (Okay)

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I am nerdy, curious, and unconventional.

My Self-Summary

I'm an intellectually curious mostly-gay girl who likes to learn and explore everything. I love to meet progressive, open-minded queer-savvy girls and boys who are not afraid to be a little dorky sometimes and who enjoy the simple, harmonious path in life. I love people of all different body types and ethnic backgrounds. I strongly value self-knowledge and communication. I like to go with the flow. I am confident and modest at the same time.

I speak several languages fluently, and I have a large German-style board game collection. I also have an Atari 2600 with many games. I like to watch documentaries, explore hidden secret corners of Toronto, and invent new languages. I love music of many obscure genres. I am very mature and have lots of life experience. That being said, I also have a very silly and strong childlike side with impulsive and random qualities.

What I’m doing with my life

Language teaching at George Brown

I’m really good at

communication in general, learning and teaching various languages, European board games, brainstorming, exploring the answer to difficult questions

The first things people usually notice about me

How I openly talk to random strangers and value everyone as a human being

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Dao De Jing, Maldoror, Baudelaire, dictionaries, textbooks, encyclopaediae

Movies and TV: Borat, The Man Who Would Be King, Waking Life, Return of the Living Dead, documentaries, satire, South Park, Angry Video Game Nerd

Music: IDM and braindance (Aphex Twin, Squarepusher, Kraftwerk), 60s ska/reggae (The Ethiopians, Alton Ellis), post-punk (Bauhaus, Joy Division), psychedelic trance (HBR1.com), J.S. Bach (especially Wendy Carlos and Glenn Gould), Medieval/Renaissance music, 70s punk (X-Ray Spex, Buzzcocks)

Food: Sushi, seafood, vegetarian food, Ethernopian food. Food turns me on a lot.

Video games: NetHack, Team Fortress 2, Atari 2600, Sega Genesis

The six things I could never do without

Interwebs, dictionaries, foods, Wikipedia, ADHD medication, IRC

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Early hominins, career strategy, optimizing my health and productivity, obscure languages

On a typical Friday night I am

Doing obscure research on an obscure topic, to feed my brain. Or watching a movie or playing a video game to unwind. Or hanging out at the Toronto HackLab in Kensington Market, trying to learn Ruby or some other nerdy skill. Or peering into the night sky, especially at red objects like Jupiter or Aldebaran.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm more of a top with women than I'd like to admit.

You should message me if

You are creative, unconventional, geeky, nerdy, dorky, artsy, silly, intellectual, curious, open-minded and/or non-snobby.

Since I'm an extrovert (ENFP to be precise), I tend to be a good complementary match for introverts.