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  • Ages 32–52
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Last online
Sep 30
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Has kids
My self-summary
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Whatever I do I do completely and with gusto. After a quick toe dip to check the temperature and confirmation that a dive will not cause permanent trauma I do a full and unabashed swan. I have spent the last decade or so rearing 3 wonderful human beings while endlessly exploring the nooks and crannies of Chicago. My goal is to be the finest amateur concierge in the city. It is a lofty goal but the path is an end in itself.
We are here for a moment. I want to laugh (a lot), cry (a little) and feel everything in between. I am very aware of world and local events and enjoy engaging in political and social dialogue. I am not anti small talk, I am just not very accomplished at it. In fact I try not to be anti anything until fully investigated.
What I’m doing with my life
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I try to make my immediate world a little nicer by listening, caring and paying attention to fellow travelers. Sometimes I am looking through an overly optimistic lens and less often through a jaundiced one but I am always a good friend and willing to help uncondtionally without preparation.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Seeing the complexity of an issue and still recognizing the lighter side
Making long term plans in a short amount of time
Following through
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I am looking them in the eye
My gait
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite musical acts right now include Lower Dens, The Yellowbirds, Buke & Gase, Marked Men, Low Lows, Delicate Steve, Black Angels, Spindrift and Portishead.
I am a big fan of radiomen Joe Frank and Harry Shearer. I need to thank an okcuidette for Steve Aylett; Lint is one of the funniest books I have ever read. Most recent reads include Zizek's Year of Dreaming Dangerously, Marable's Malcolm X, Zinn's People's History, Hedges and Sacco Days of Destruction Days of Revolt, and Tiger's Wife. All time fave is Infinite Jest- it took a year but I couldn't put it down.
I cook a lot and eat out a fair amount
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
good craic
plans for future travel/adventure
the first set at a small venue on a weekday
ice water
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can be a better side man, sous chef and aide-de-camp.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
making pizza
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I am a closet vegetarian
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