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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26-38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 30, 2013
Black, White
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Average build
Working on Post grad
My self-summary
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Hi there! Well, this is awkward. Thanks for checking out my profile! I consider myself a lemonade maker. The older I get the more I've come to value being in the moment. Life is too short. That's what brought me here seeking to connect. Down from the clouds, I'm smart, funny, super empathetic, and fun to be with. Nerdy and web connected. Poetic sometimes, soulful all the time. I am seeking someone who is authentic and comfortable in their skin.
What I’m doing with my life
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After a good couple of years out, I am back in school working toward a PhD in ethnomusicology. I'm also a musician (vocalist) but haven't found the time to play in a while. Here's hoping that will change soon!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.

And singing, writing, laughing, joking, cooking, chatting, and hard work. I'm also a great daughter and friend.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably my height, but my sparkling personality is probably a close second. ;)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Doomsday Book by Connie Willis, The Sookie Stackhouse Mysteries, the Millennium Trilogy.

Movies: Strictly Ballroom, Amelie, The Godfather (Parts I and II), Back to the Future (I-III), Trading Places, Coming to America, Singin' in the Rain, Brigadoon, Still Crazy, City of God, and the whole John Waters oeuvre. I'm a big Tarantino fan, too.

Shows: Sherlock (the new BBC version), Archer, Treme, the Wire, Big Bang Theory, BSG, Breaking Bad, Sons of Anarchy, Mad Men, Game of Thrones, Are You Being Served?, True Blood, the News Room, Doc Martin, Luther, Chappelle's Show, Key & Peele, Scandal, the Vicar of Dibley, Community, Masterpiece Theater (including Downton Abbey), and anything with Anthony Bourdain on it.

Music: There's too much to list! I love classic soul and classic rock, but I'm open to anything under the sun. Here are a few of my favorite artists/bands: The Beatles, Otis Redding, Sam Cooke, Stevie Wonder, Raphael Saadiq, Ben Folds (on his own and BF5), Al Green, Bob Marley, Kermit Ruffins, Swell Season, The White Stripes, Jill Scott, Erykah Badu, Ella Fitzgerald, Billie Holiday, Nina Simone, Michael Jackson, Paul Simon, Fiona Apple, The Roots, Ray Charles, Curtis Mayfield, KT Tunstall, Aqualung, and The Red Hot Chili Peppers.

Food: All! These days I am a big fan of classic American food and great beer.

Podcasts: Mike O'Meara Show, Big O and Dukes, The Sports Junkies, Sick and Wrong, and This American Life.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good pastries
Perfectly worn-in jeans
My laptop
The love of my family and friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the future, while trying my best to remain in the present.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing from a busy week. Usually something relatively quiet. Happy hour with friends maybe.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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that I know exactly what I am looking for.
You should message me if
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you're smart, funny, and are both circumspect about life and focused on being in the moment. :)