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46 Austin, TX Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 8:18am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Other, and laughing about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Okay), Italian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), French (Poorly), Other (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Stand by while I recalibrate...

It is my goal to find someone who will join me in total immersion for awhile. I no longer ask my relationships for the Forever card, but I do very much want to have one where the level of focus, love and attention I give is returned in full. I've still not experienced that. Perhaps when I do, forever will be the organic result.

The one I seek is exceptional.
If I had to select one word to describe him it would be Integrity.
He doesn't swim with the school or follow the herd.
He is kind and generous because it feels good to help others.
He whispers to animals of all kinds and talks to trees...oh wait, that's me.
He is a shapeshifter, a chameleon, able to float between realms and operate well in most situations.
He does not run in the face of danger but will stand next to me or at my back to stare it down, whatever the danger may be (or he's holding my hand tight because we've realized that this particular danger we face is going to eat us if we don't run NOW).
He's willing to put himself in dangerous positions in the first place.
He thinks for himself and has a burning curiosity that cannot be quelled by the Machine.
He resists the Machine, yet speaks Machine fluently.
He's most likely self taught but higher education may have happened.
He is hilarious and thinks everything I say is either funny, profound or full of shit.
He knows when I'm full of shit.
He is fit because it allows him to do all the fun stuff he likes to do, not just to look hot in the mirror.
He looks hot in the mirror. To me.
He loves dogs because he knows they are the true gods of the universe. (Whoever came up with the god idea was clearly dyslexic.)

He has been floating around on his own long enough to:
have healed his wounds,
refill whatever coffers were depleted after his last relationship,
have had enough casual sex to almost want to be celebate for awhile because the woman he's looking for still hasn't showed up and he's tired of the carousel of faces,
be ready to dive off the Cliffs of Insanity into the Sea of Love holding my hand.

And if this doesn't crack you up because you understand it from a personal perspective, you're too young...

I am not an OMG Austin is SO Awesome person. It used to be a pretty little city with a bunch of smart privileged kids running around in burnt orange, a gaggle of super chill hippyfolk and a beautiful river turned into several lakes. It's still those things, but the recent additions (which I'm not talking about) are turning it ugly for me. Just because I live here right now doesn't mean I will forever. If you live elsewhere, you could tempt me to move. It really wouldn't be too hard if we can't resist each other. Smack into me like a magnet finding its opposite side and I'll have to move, won't I.

On the other hand, if you live anywhere in the dead zone (between urban and rural), your magnet won't work on me.
However, if you live in the midst of an urban world AND have/have access to a place in the middle of nowhere (or even better...the beach), or vice versa, you move to the top of the list immediately.

to be continued
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Adjusting to the constant leveling up that I keep spontaneously experiencing. If you know what I mean...dammit man, skip to the Message button already and let's get this thing going!

Not responding to the myriad of men who think Hey or Hi or Hello all by itself is a conversation starter. A weak opener like that tells me they didn't read my words or they have nothing to say, either way it's far from exceptional.

Playing. All the time. Everywhere. Because why not?

Waiting for my next surf trip. I feel one coming. Maybe late spring. Wanna go?

Working on my art. I perform (currently just for the trees and my dog but I think that may change). I write. I paint. I draw. I whittle. I play with paper. I build cairns everywhere outta found stuff. I'm itching to sculpt, that's next.

Developing grand plans for healing centers of various natures.

Looking for a patron/angel investor.
I'm an efficiency designer/idea generator/product improvement specialist.
I'm hoping that at least one of my ideas/projects will begin a money funnel to fund the healing centers and earn enough to start giving random people who are struggling big wads of cash just to see them smile. Because I know how that smile feels personally.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have preferences but no favorites
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why people make the choices they do. And why so many people don't understand that they're in control of their own destiny if they choose to be. There's a voiceover in an Evil Nine song that states: 'you must program your own mind or the world will do it for you.' I want a man with unique programming. He'll get the same from me in return.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you understand that vaporizing is a form of cowardice that is unacceptable. I will not tolerate that behavior. If we have plans and you change your mind, either before or after meeting me, please have the dignity to tell me. If you decide to vaporize on me despite this warning, there may be repercussions. Especially if you've left a trail of broken promises. There is zero integrity in vaporizing.

you like women who know stuff. I know lots and lots of stuff, some of it is even good for things other than trivia night. I'm pretty astonishing at trivia night.

you aren't intimidated by women who explore. I already have done more and seen more than a giant herd of normal people ever do their whole lives. And there's still so much more exploring to do! I'll do it alone, but I would much rather use the buddy system.

you have chosen to keep your skin ink-free. Or at least have curtailed your desire for body art to a minimum. It cracks me up that not having a tattoo is now essentially counter-culture. I sit at that section of the counter.

you have not lied in your profile. Not about your height, your age, your attachment to another woman, or any other fabrication created to lure women into your fallacy. I advise you to stay far away from me if you participate in such behavior. I don't abide liars. They make me feel kinda Dexterish...without the homicidal urge.

you are not a follower of anything or anyone. Most especially, you're not a follower of an organized religion of any kind. Seeking knowledge is different from following.

you want my flawed, zany, sparkly fire in your life to shine next to you lighting the way, to burn your ass when you need motivation and to comfort you with its enveloping warmth when life is cold.

you can't resist.