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Soul_Stu

33 San Francisco, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 10:00am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Management
Income
Rather not say
Status
Single
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I guess you could say that I'm the British equivalent of the American dream. Grew up on 'the wrong side of the tracks', been working since I was 10 years old, was the first in my family to graduate college & get my professional qualifications. As a result, I take pride in being relatively self-reliant, just need a partner now that I can let into that world!

I have a talent for not planning my weekends. I'm typically hitting people up on a Friday to see if anyone wants to go out. Not sure this makes me spontaneous, just reactive!

When I'm not working you'll find me doing a combination of keeping active, hanging out at the coffee shop or finding a source of comedy that will make me laugh!

What do I mean when I say keeping active? Climbing, running (I have run 3 half marathons and am yet to experience a runners high!), biking, weights, hiking and anything else that pops up. I played rugby at University and would love to find a regular pick up game that is at a sociable hour! Need an extra body for a team, I'm game to try!

If I set myself a goal to do something, it will be done...even if that is a terrible idea...I have been known to do things without the correct gear or training!

I'm adding new photos as I find acceptable ones, but I photograph about as well as Chandler from Friends!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I moved to the US 7 years ago for work and really enjoy being in the Bay Area. I work in finance for a large IT company and will talk about it if you really want me too.

I like to travel although still haven't done enough. The last 5yrs have been more city focused, but starting to think I need to see the amazing sights outside of the cities as well. I also need to venture south of the equator at some point!

Btw, I'm already a permanent resident, so no visa complications from me...just in case you were wondering, & yes, I've been asked.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being there
Being on time
Directions
Laughing
Not being understood
Sarcasm
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My accent - although recognition of that accent is generally not good
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Comedy is my #1 choice in pretty much every medium. Films, stand-up and TV shows are all fair game.

Movies: Most comedies, Shawshank, the latest Batman trilogy...

Music: Oasis, Blur, Queen, Coldplay, Foster the people, Neon trees, Fun., REM, Third Eye Blind, Intercept, U2... just to name a few. I've also recently determined that I like private Karaoke rooms... space to experiment.

Food: Spicy food, BBQ, Curry, Sushi, Paella, Seafood in general

Favorite books: Yes Man, Freakonomics, Superfreakonomics, Googlewhacks, Are you Dave Gorman?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Comedy
The Economist
Coffee
Exercise
Friends
My phone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I would do to fix the issues in the world. I'll let you know if I ever figure it out
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably the gym followed by drinks with friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not good at listening to doctors. I was told when I was about 8 years old that I should never play sport again. To me this meant switching from playing outfield to in goal for soccer. The doctor gave up trying to stop me by the time I was 11
You should message me if
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You want to meet someone new, talk about the World or go find something to make us laugh...

You want to be surprised and feel special.

You want to date someone:
- Who will do active things with you
- Will never buy a pair of skinny jeans
- Will surprise you when you get to know them