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30 Tucson, AZ Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 22–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:39am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Lover of life. Interested in the bigger picture. Open-minded. Open-hearted. Perfectly happy with imperfection. Fascinated.

I took the Jung Typology test recently (since I see so many people on OKC share their given personality acronym). I'm an ENTP -- Extravert-iNtuitive-Thinking-Perceiving -- kind of guy.
What I’m doing with my life
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Exploring new ideas, always. Playing guitar and writing songs. Occasionally teaching people stuff about nature. Playing soccer. I <3 soccer. Making fire by rubbing two sticks together. Working on my house. Desert walks and talks.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Communicating and "working things out." Making words do what I want -- i.e. writing. Anything athletic: soccer, ultimate frisbee, volleyball -- you name it, I'll throw my body into it. Being clear about needs and desires within a relationship. Self-awareness. Taking care of myself through eating a supportive diet, being active (or relaxing), seeking out community. Researching and discovering and compiling information in creative and unique ways.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Smile, eyes, long hair, man bun, beard. One of those things, probably.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Nourishing Traditions, Nutrition & Physical Degeneration by Weston A. Price, Farley Mowat books, anthropological adventures.

Movies: Harold & Maude, Contact, Little Miss Sunshine, Idiocracy

Music: Folk, Bluegrass, Reggae, Dubstep (strictly for dancing)

Food: Ribeyes, butter, homemade ice cream ... if you want to talk nutrition, let me know :-)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Human touch
Access to wilderness
Close friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Relationships. Human behavior on a micro and macro scale. Sexuality. The present state of my body and mind. Alternate universes. (Deep, right?)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating a home-cooked meal, camping in the mountains, hanging out with friends, soccer.
You should message me if
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You're not a jealous, possessive, and critical person.

You find honesty refreshing. I will not tell you all the things you want to hear just to get you in bed.

You understand that loving another person ultimately means self-love and self-value.

You've read The Mastery of Love. This book affirmed what I've felt about love and relationships for my entire life.

And you like this rant: Don't try to own me. I value freedom, and I don't buy into fairy tale romance. When I commit to a person, I commit to the constant negotiation of mutual benefit between that person and I. I do not subscribe to the "I'm yours and you're mine" relationship style. Relationships are fluid and ever-changing -- acknowledging the change and making realistic and fearless choices is love in action.