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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:31pm
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6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Might want kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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“Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself.”
― Rumi

Lover of life. Interested in the bigger picture. Open-minded. Open-hearted. Perfectly happy with imperfection. Fascinated.

I took the Jung Typology test recently. I'm an ENTP -- Extravert-iNtuitive-Thinking-Perceiving.

Also, I'm polyamorous. If I could put that as my relationship status, I would. I put "single" because I essentially function as a single person. I do currently have varying degrees of relationships, and I date as time and energy permits. Inquire within.
What I’m doing with my life
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Exploring new ideas, always. Playing guitar and writing songs. Occasionally teaching people stuff about nature. Playing soccer. I <3 soccer. Making fire by rubbing two sticks together. Working on my house. Desert walks and talks. Exploring the taboo and unconventional and finding my edges.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Communication. Making words do what I want -- i.e. writing. Anything athletic: soccer, ultimate frisbee, volleyball -- you name it, I'll throw my body into it. Being clear about needs and desires within a relationship. Self-awareness. Taking care of myself through eating a supportive diet, being active (or relaxing), seeking out community. Researching and discovering and compiling information in creative and unique ways.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Smile, eyes, long hair, man bun, beard. One of those things, probably.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I haven't read a good book in a really long time. Historically, I've been really into philosophical fiction (such as "Siddhartha") or non-fiction about natural history. Lately, all I read are internet blogs or random articles.

Movies: Harold & Maude, Contact, Little Miss Sunshine, Idiocracy

Music: Folk, Bluegrass, Reggae, Dubstep (strictly for dancing)

Food: Ribeyes, butter, bone broth, homemade ice cream ... if you want to talk nutrition, let me know :-)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Human touch
Access to wilderness
Close friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Relationships. Human behavior on a micro and macro scale. Sexuality. The present state of my body and mind. Alternate universes. (Deep, right?)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating a home-cooked meal, camping in the mountains, hanging out with friends, soccer.
You should message me if
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You're not a jealous, possessive, or critical person.

You are approach taboo subjects with curiosity rather than snap judgments.

You understand that loving another person ultimately means self-love and self-value.

Or, you know, you just want to kick around a soccer ball or go for a nice walk. :)