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Soul__Rebel

31 Tucson, AZ Man

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 22–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
May 26
Orientation
Heteroflexible
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Status
Single
Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
“Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself.”
― Rumi

Lover of life. Interested in the bigger picture. Open-minded. Open-hearted. Perfectly happy with imperfection. Fascinated.

I took the Jung Typology test recently (since I see so many people on OKC share their given personality acronym). I'm an ENTP -- Extravert-iNtuitive-Thinking-Perceiving.

Also, I'm polyamorous. http://www.morethantwo.com
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Exploring new ideas, always. Playing guitar and writing songs. Occasionally teaching people stuff about nature. Playing soccer. I <3 soccer. Making fire by rubbing two sticks together. Working on my house. Desert walks and talks. Exploring the taboo and finding my edges.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Communication. Making words do what I want -- i.e. writing. Anything athletic: soccer, ultimate frisbee, volleyball -- you name it, I'll throw my body into it. Being clear about needs and desires within a relationship. Self-awareness. Taking care of myself through eating a supportive diet, being active (or relaxing), seeking out community. Researching and discovering and compiling information in creative and unique ways.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Smile, eyes, long hair, man bun, beard. One of those things, probably.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I haven't read a good book in a really long time. Historically, I've been really into philosophical fiction (such as "Siddhartha") or non-fiction about natural history. Lately, all I read are internet blogs or random articles.

Movies: Harold & Maude, Contact, Little Miss Sunshine, Idiocracy

Music: Folk, Bluegrass, Reggae, Dubstep (strictly for dancing)

Food: Ribeyes, butter, bone broth, homemade ice cream ... if you want to talk nutrition, let me know :-)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Laughter
Human touch
Access to wilderness
Close friends
Community
Fire
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Relationships. Human behavior on a micro and macro scale. Sexuality. The present state of my body and mind. Alternate universes. (Deep, right?)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating a home-cooked meal, camping in the mountains, hanging out with friends, soccer.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're not a jealous, possessive, or critical person.

You find honesty refreshing. I will not tell you all the things you want to hear just to get you in bed.

You understand that loving another person ultimately means self-love and self-value.

You've read The Mastery of Love. This book affirmed what I've felt about love and relationships for my entire life.

And you like this quote: “Love one another, but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.”
― Kahlil Gibran