I met an absolutely wonderful woman on OKC, kk00319, and am definitely in love! We are exploring our partnership as an open relationship (a.k.a. non-monogamy, polyamory) and are looking to meet others who have experience with -- or are curious about -- such an arrangement.
I'm currently open to casual connections with an understanding that I do not have room for another committed partnership in my life. (Feel free to ask me more about this.) I'm always excited to meet and get to know new people!
"When you love, whatever you do is because you want to do it. It becomes a pleasure, it's like a game, and you have fun with it. When you love, you don't expect something to happen; whatever happens is okay, and hardly anything disappoints you."
~ Don Miguel Ruiz
I recently changed my orientation to "bisexual." If I could select a better word to describe my orientation on OKCupid, it would be "bi-flexible." I tend to be strongly attracted to women, mostly. But occasionally I feel a strong attraction to a man. It's rare, but it happens, so I don't rule it out completely. I suspect there are many other men that feel this way, but don't feel comfortable coming out in this culture. I'd enjoy hearing from other men who identify as such or are questioning this right now in their lives, as I'm still trying to understand it and feel my way through it!