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30 M Tucson, AZ

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 22–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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"When you love, whatever you do is because you want to do it. It becomes a pleasure, it's like a game, and you have fun with it. When you love, you don't expect something to happen; whatever happens is okay, and hardly anything disappoints you."

~ Don Miguel Ruiz

Lover of life. Interested in the bigger picture. Open-minded. Open-hearted. Perfectly happy with imperfection. Fascinated.

I am in an open relationship with kk00319, and we like meeting others who have experience with -- or are curious about -- such an arrangement (non-monogamy, polyamory). We like to establish intimate friendships with those we click with.

I do go on dates by myself, and anyone who is interested needs to know that if you become involved with me, you will also meet and get to know my partner at some point. Most likely sooner than later. That doesn't mean we all have to be involved romantically or sexually (although it is a possibility), but it's important that everyone gets along and lines of communication are open.

If you're not familiar, learn more about non-monogamous relationships here:

About being "bisexual:" If I could select a better word to describe my orientation, it would be bisensual. I tend to be strongly attracted to women, mostly. But occasionally I feel a strong non-sexual attraction to a man. I am comfortable with men's bodies, and I enjoy touching and being touched by other men who I am close to.
What I’m doing with my life
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Exploring new ideas, always. Living with my beautiful partner and a sweet pup. Playing guitar and writing songs. Occasionally teaching people stuff about nature. Playing soccer. I <3 soccer. Making fire by rubbing two sticks together. Working on my house. Desert walks and talks.
I’m really good at
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Communicating and "working things out." Making words do what I want -- i.e. writing. Anything athletic: soccer, ultimate frisbee, volleyball -- you name it, I'll throw my body into it. Being clear about needs and desires within a relationship. Self-awareness. Taking care of myself through eating a supportive diet, being active (or relaxing), seeking out community. Researching and discovering and compiling information in creative and unique ways.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and quickness to laughter. Or something else. You tell me!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Nourishing Traditions, Nutrition & Physical Degeneration by Weston A. Price, Farley Mowat books, anthropological adventures.

Movies: Harold & Maude, Contact, Little Miss Sunshine, Idiocracy

Music: Folk, Bluegrass, Reggae, Dubstep (strictly for dancing)

Food: Ribeyes, butter, homemade ice cream ... if you want to talk nutrition, let me know :-)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
As long as I have food, water, shelter, and people, I will survive!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Well, sex, of course. Relationships/human behavior. I also enjoy pondering the amazing machine that is the human body and how food and environment affects it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating a home-cooked meal, camping in the mountains, hanging out with friends.
You should message me if
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You're not a jealous, possessive, and critical person.

You find honesty refreshing. I will not tell you all the things you want to hear just to get you in bed.

You understand that loving another person ultimately means self-love and self-value.

You've read The Mastery of Love. This book affirmed what I've felt about love and relationships for my entire life.

And you like this rant: Don't try to own me. I value freedom, and I don't buy into fairy tale romance. When I commit to a person, I commit to the constant negotiation of mutual benefit between that person and I. I do not subscribe to the "I'm yours and you're mine" relationship style. Relationships are fluid and ever-changing -- acknowledging the change and making realistic and fearless choices is love in action.