I met an absolutely wonderful woman on OKC, kk00319, and am definitely in love! We are exploring our partnership as an open relationship (a.k.a. non-monogamy or polyamory), and we like meeting others who have experience with -- or are curious about -- such an arrangement. We especially enjoy meeting other couples and establishing intimate friendships with those we click with.
I do go on dates by myself, and anyone who is interested needs to know that if you become involved with me, you will also meet and get to know my partner at some point. Most likely sooner than later.
(If you're not familiar, learn more about non-monogamous relationships here: http://www.morethantwo.com/)
"When you love, whatever you do is because you want to do it. It becomes a pleasure, it's like a game, and you have fun with it. When you love, you don't expect something to happen; whatever happens is okay, and hardly anything disappoints you."
~ Don Miguel Ruiz
About being "bisexual:" If I could select a better word to describe my orientation on OKCupid, it would be "hetero-flexible." I tend to be strongly attracted to women, mostly. But occasionally I feel a strong attraction to a man. It's rare, but it happens, so I don't rule it out completely. I suspect there are many other men that feel this way, but don't feel comfortable coming out in this culture. I'd enjoy hearing from other men who identify as such or are questioning this right now in their lives, as I'm still trying to understand it and feel my way through it.