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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21-40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 8:12pm
Relationship Type
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Might want kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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"Vice, Virtue. It's best not to be too moral. You cheat yourself out of too much *life.* Aim above morality. If you apply that to life, then you're bound to live life fully." ~ Maude

Interested in the bigger picture. Open-minded. Open-hearted. Perfectly happy with imperfection. Fascinated. ENTP.

Also, polyamorous. If I could put that as my relationship status, I would. I do currently have varying degrees of connections, and I'm open to anything from super casual to friendship to more long-term/committed. I like to let relationships evolve naturally and don't put pressure on them becoming anything specific.
What I’m doing with my life
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Exploring new ideas, always. Playing guitar and writing songs. Occasionally teaching people stuff about nature. Playing soccer. I <3 soccer. Making fire by rubbing two sticks together. Working on my house. Desert walks and talks. Exploring the taboo and unconventional and finding my edges.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Communication. Making words do what I want -- i.e. writing.

Anything athletic: soccer, ultimate frisbee, volleyball -- you name it, I'll throw my body into it.

Researching and discovering and compiling information in creative and unique ways.

Getting 72% matches on OKC. Seriously, I have so many of these. Haha
The first things people usually notice about me
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Smile, eyes, long hair, man bun, beard. One of those things, probably.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I haven't read a good book in a really long time. Historically, I've been really into philosophical fiction (such as "Siddhartha") or non-fiction about natural history. Lately, all I read are internet blogs or random articles.

Movies: Harold & Maude, Contact, Little Miss Sunshine, Idiocracy

Music: Folk, Bluegrass, Reggae, Dubstep (strictly for dancing)

Food: Ribeyes, butter, bone broth, homemade ice cream ... if you want to talk nutrition, let me know :-)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Human touch
Access to wilderness
Close friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Which project to tackle next on my house, how to be more creative in my work, and what to put in the book I'd like to start writing at some point.

Also, I'm constantly checking in with how I'm breathing. It's pretty important stuff, ya know.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating a home-cooked meal, camping in the mountains, hanging out with friends, soccer.
You should message me if
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You're not a jealous, possessive, or critical person.

You approach taboo subjects with curiosity rather than snap judgments.

You understand that loving another person ultimately means self-love and self-value.

Or, you know, you just want to kick around a soccer ball or go for a nice walk. :)