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30 Austin, TX Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–30
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:42pm
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body type
Not at all
Christianity, and very serious about it
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
English (Fluently), Chinese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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So, I'm kind of a wandering nomad. I've grown up in DC, worked in India, started a career in Seattle, became a subject matter expert in Boston; and now I'm ready to see what Austin brings to me and I to her (it?).

Despite these Northern cities and their cultures, I consider my dating style to be Southern. I like the concept of friends first. It allows us to both share our humanity without the pressures and pretenses that so often accompany the Northern game =/

So, what might that look like? Ice skating (obviously easier in a Northern climate), board games, long walks in a park, coffee, dinner, volunteering, making origami stuff, (we're too old for playgrounds, right?)
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm studying Chinese at the, I'm constantly wondering if I know the word for something...I almost never do, as it turns out. Oh well, 600 note cards down.....300,000 words to go, right?

我不說漢語, 可是我在學
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Keeping my promises and speaking the truth. Even when it hurts me to keep my promises, I do; and even when it would benefit me to lie, I can't seem to force myself to do it. (Don't get me wrong...I can be wrong and I can change my mind, but those don't stem from an intent to deceive.)
The first things people usually notice about me
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I would hope that it's my passion; but I think it's my eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Bible and anything sci-fi/fanatasy, such as Dune, Song of Ice and Fire (Game of Thrones), the Harry Potter Series
Movies: sci-fi, fantasy, action, comedies
Shows: almost anything sci-fi/fantasy, such as Fringe
Food: anything but seafood; big fan of Thai and Indian
Music: Rock/Metal/Alternative and Hymns
(In case anyone is interested, the first link is for the hymn and the other is my rock list)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I have been in the upper income brackets and the recipient of assistance (foodbank food to be specific). So, while I like things; I mostly buy things as a way to share with the people in my life.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If the love of God were predicated by goodness, when would any of us be loved? I'm grateful that not only is the love of God predicated only by His gracious choice but that His expectation of us is to give freely to others what we have received without merit from Him.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Definitely a big fan of games: card, board and video. Going to the movies or going to out eat are also up there.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Secretly (or not so, I love those conversations where a recruiter feels like he's done a great job of pitching a contract to you...only for him to find out he's offered less than half of what I'm making now.
You should message me if
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we're a reasonable on paper match (not the match score but personality and physicality)

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