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28 Oakland, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My details

Last online
Sep 21
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
Buddhism and laughing about it
Dropped out of University
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat), Chinese (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

From: Louisiana
Lived in: NYC
IG: hermexial
VSCO: hermexial
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm what you call a Liquid Alchemist.
My haus is full of dead shit. Mostly flora and not fauna. That is only because flora are easier to come by. In this home, cocktails are imbibed on the daily and singin' real loud is usual. I've recently begun training at Circus Center every weekday for to become proficient at expressing myself on lyra and tissu.

I habitually climb on things and drive very fast.

The desert does something to me that I cannot explain without the use of pyrite and black velvet paintings.

I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making drinks.
Brewing tea. Gong Fu or otherwise.
Scaling tall objects.
Designing labels and packaging.
Making people laugh.
Voices and impressions.
Driving fast.
Having fun.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My diction, dapper disposition and humor.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Dzongsar Kyentse
The Complete O Henry
Kafka on the Shore and The Windup Bird Chronicles
The Wind Up Girl - Paolo Baccigalupi
Molecular Gastronomy - Hervé This
Oishinbo - Tetsu Kariya
Rewired: A cyberpunk anthology
Thirst. Drive. Trust - Hal Hartley. Repo Man.
Casablanca. Shogun Assassin.
X Files. The Outer Limits. American Gothic.
Little Dragon. Quadron. Curtis Mayfield. James Brown. Al Green. Erykah Badu Outkast. Wu-Tang. XXYYXX. fLako. Deerhoof. Interpol. King Krule. Interpol

Japanese home style
Taqueria Vallarta
Gumbeaux (not the red shit)
Jambalaya. Étouffée.
Curries. Szechuan.
Single Malt Scotch (Bruichladdich) Bourbon (Blanton's)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
This keeps changing so often as I loose or quit using things. I'll go with:
Clean water.
Good food.
Nice clothes.
Slick shoes.
A bag to carry my accoutrement.
A pen and a paper, a stereo a tape-a, me and Eric B and a nice big plate-a fish, which is my favorite dish, but without no money it's still a wish.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Scents and the memories they trigger.
Cocktail recipes. Flavor combinations.
The subtle lines of the female form.
Memories. Music. Flying. Falling.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing the same shit as all the other nights.
Or playing pool.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Hell, I'm really not very private.
I cry often.
I use Tinder.
I don't want to see a picture of you eating food.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're mature for your age.
you would like to play pool
you enjoy a good drink.
you'd like to have an adventure.
you're sexy and you know it.
you cut a serious rug.