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34 Winston-Salem, NC Man


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21–37
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 9:11am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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I am an intensely inquisitive and focused person, ready to devour and grok anything that draws my interest, but my calm, light-hearted manner belies it. Throw in a healthy dose of rebellious skepticism and you've got a candy coated iconoclast thirsty for the next ideal to destroy. All in good fun, though.

I'm generally an introvert, but age has brought more love of people and if I find you interesting (meaning you display a sense of humor and engage in good conversation) you will definitely see my extrovert side.

If not, I will generally be pleasant, but you won't get the intense, raw, witty part. That is reserved for those that, like myself, have lost the ability to take anything in life too seriously and love, love, love to laugh.

I have a degree in jazz performance (guitar). Currently I'm in school to become a physical therapist.

I grew up in North Carolina, but sadly don't have a southern accent. Moved out to Cali in 2010 and spent the last couple of years living in the woods up north trying my hand at permaculture/homesteading and working in the dirt. Now I'm back in North Carolina (as of August 2013) spending my time playing music and regurgitating facts at a professor.
What I’m doing with my life
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Examining myself and my life in order to keep bullshit at bay, Playing guitar, Playing chess, Olympic weightlifting, school for physical therapy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
playing guitar; observing and understanding people; finding life very funny;
The first things people usually notice about me
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Eyes; easy going, accepting demeanor; wit
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books- Stranger in a Strange Land (Heinlein), Free Play
(Nachmanovitch), How to Read a Book (Adler), Natural
Perfection (Dowman), Understanding the Enneagram (Riso).

Music- Midnite, Joe Henderson, Wayne Shorter!, Erykah Badu!, Parliament, Wes Montgomery, Joe Pass, People Under the Stairs, Breakestra, B.B. King, Rush, Black Sabbath, Herbie Hancock, Zappa!

The following geniuses get their own line
-Louis CK
-Patrice O'Neal
-Bill Burr

Movies- I like a lot of different movies, can't think of anything. Obviously not a big movie guy.

Food- Baked sweet potatoes with lots of butter, Milkshakes (vanilla ice
cream with chocolate syrup), Steamed Italian parsley (yes, it's delicious), Burgers.

Actually, I think I just listed my favorite meal.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Air, Water, Food, Shelter, Clothing, A good laugh
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What the hell is going on here?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
an empty essay
You should message me if
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-You like to laugh and know how to appreciate life, meaning you don't complain. I don't want to be around people who complain.

-You are more interested in being truthful and authentic than in seeming normal or special. My bullshit detector is finely tuned, and my time (and hopefully yours) is too valuable to spend with someone not willing to be honest.