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32 Candler, NC Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 21–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and very serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Russian (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I remain in a state of constant departure while always arriving...

I may not be where my profile says i am, but i might be there soon. I don't have a home, my belongings have been in storage for 6 years. When i'm working, i'm in a new city almost every day--covering ground while I sleep.

An ideal match would be equally independent and adventurous, a free spirit or traveler, someone who can casually maintain emotional intimacy from a distance, and who can create opportunities for physical proximity.

Since i am never in one place for very long, i have little desire to own things or bend the will of any person. I have a lot of room in my heart, and i crave deep connections-- however fleeting, or separated by time and space. I categorize my sexuality as "equal-opportunity" not just "bi".

I am drawn to wilderness, and i feel the most at peace when dazzled by the vastness, intricacy, and mystery of nature.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Designing lights for concerts. Touring. Traveling. Exploring. Diving.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being open. Navigating. Mustering courage. Indulging. Choosing my words carefully. Being prepared. Vacationing. Setting the mood.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Calm, brave, direct, tall.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
non-fiction pop science--biology, cosmology, consciousness, technology, religion.

fiction: dystopian poetic sci fi....david foster wallace, gabriel garcia marquez, china mieville, george orwell, aldous huxley, ray bradbury, gary shteyngart, dave eggers, samuel delany. guilty pleasure: hugh howey.

lonely planet travel guides.

movies: kubrick, miyazaki, solondz, del toro, aronofsky, park chan-wook, miike, von trier, lyne, linklater, lynch, malle, jeunet&caro, cronenberg, bertolucci. documentaries.

art: olafur eliason, andrew goldsworthy, robert irwin, james turrell, gabriel dawe, thomas hooper, erte, antonin artaud.

music: radiohead, nine inch nails, colour revolt, nina simone, on an on, war on drugs, zola jesus, cocteau twins, fever ray, portishead, savages, the antlers, beach house, susanne sundfør, m83. guilty pleasure: lana del ray.

food: yellowtail/scallion maki, papaya salad, skyr, panang curry, peanut butter/chocolate, passion fruits, pomegranates, tapioca, pho, garlic, green kombucha, panna cotta.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
and it's nice to have an iPhone-it's my book, camera, music, telephone, and computer in one.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Color, light, and shadows. My next vacation. The microscopic world. The sorry state of the planet. Self-improvement.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Using illumination to actualize an emotional response to auditory stimulus. In other words, working.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not wearing any underwear.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
We are a 99% match.
You want to talk about scuba diving. I'm newly obsessed.
You're a nomad.
You create.
You're not boring nor bored.
You wear your sensuality on your sleeve.
You believe absence makes the heart grow fonder.
You value kindness, and are authentic instead of sarcastic or ironic.
You know where to find some 5meo-dmt.