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45 M Grand Rapids, MI

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5′ 11″ (1.80m)
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Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
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Has kids
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My self-summary
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I am looking for someone who I can spend time with, someone who has common interests and wants most of the same things in life that I want to share like honesty, trust, loving by nature , compassion, intimacy, even temperament, good morals and values, not easily angered, soft spoken, fun to be around, attractive, likes to stay fit, active, energetic, hard working, responsible, caring, affectionate, spiritual, ect.., these are some of the qualities that I admire in someone. I am looking for a partner, friend, lover, and pal. lol ? I don't ask for much just want the real deal! I am not going to settle ever again, we have to give it to each other right or don't give it at all! I want to live the next 40 years to be happy and with meaning, filled with great memories, smiles, affection and laughter.

I strongly believe it takes knowing someone for years before you really know for sure who they are. Some people are not always who they appear to be and in the beginning we always show our best sides! I am much smarter in recognizing the warning signs however.

I am not in a hurry, it has to be right, but I do like to have fun so lets be good friends and see where it goes from there. I am not one to talk so much about myself although I do find that there are a lot of woman that really know how to express themselves in writing and I'm attracted to intelligent, witty and fun people. Quality not perfection is what I want. I think woman are smarter then men in a lot of ways but some men are smarter then they appear! Lol ?

I am very affectionate, but not smothering. I love an intimate soft slow kiss, a hug, a nice dinner, a slow dance and a candle lit room. I am kind of a romantic, but also a man. I am physically fit and enjoy being active. I am patient, kind, trustworthy, even tempered and a gentleman.

I am not a big internet chatter or emailer because I just don't have the time for it. If we exchange emails I am going to want to talk on the phone, you can tell if your attracted to someone by their voice better then what they write, once we meet we will both know if we want to meet again and if there is a mutual chemistry or not. I am not a chaser and can take the hint, if I email you and you don't respond I got it! That works both ways, I promise I wont be mad, its got to be mutual or its not going to be.
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I play a lot of sports. Hockey, golf, softball.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Probably my eyes
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–47
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
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If you are looking for a honest , fun loving outgoing guy.