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Spencah

30 Boston, MA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 6:42pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Average
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on university
Job
Other
Status
Single
Type
Mostly monogamous
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I can be a sarcastic twat. I am attracted to confidence, intelligence, open mindedness, women who can throw my sarcasm back in my face, and passion for whatever it is they like. Dislikes: ignorance, mean spiritedness, disingenuous and unintelligent people.

I like honest people who are not afraid to argue with me. I'm an ardent advocate for civil liberties. Racism makes no sense to me, so if you've been to any of the protests in Boston, you've likely already spotted me.

I am all for the coffee dates (I love espresso), but I don't mind a fun, creative adventure either.

Interests: psychology, public health, social ecological models of public health improvement interventions, civil liberties, social justice, bicycles, your mom.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm finishing up my undergraduate degree in psychology, and I'm in the process of applying to PhD programs. I work 22 hours a week in a lab, and I ride a pedicab in Boston (yes, even in the winter).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking, fixing stuff, making people laugh, listening, riding/building/fixing/ogling over bikes, and writing a paper under extreme time constraints.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, my beard, my sarcasm, and my laugh.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: The Great Gatsby, Poetry by Yeats, Eliot, and Spenser. Any play by Tennessee Williams, Hamlet, and all of Kerouac and William S. Burroughs' books. The list goes on and only gets longer.

Music: Folk, Hip-Hop (underground), oldies, and indie rock. I've gotten way into French indie-pop lately (ask me how later), and like generally chill, downbeat stuff like Cat Power, Sufjan Stevens, Massive Attack, Lykke Li, etc.

Movies: The Girl With The Dragon Tattoo, Monsters, Inc., Let the Right One In, Korean thrillers, Citizen Kane, French foreign films (La Vie D'Adèle, Chapitres 1 & 2), Star Wars.

Food: If baking for your partner is really important to you, we might not work out. I don't eat sugar, wheat, or dairy, so I'm the worst person for whom to make cupcakes. That said, I'm an amazing cook.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Friends
2. Double-shots of espresso
3. A bicycle
4. Books
5. Banter
6. Ambition
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I'm going to snake my way through this downtown gridlock traffic on my bike.
How that meat head in a Bruins jersey probably hates me because I just cut him off.
And food.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out/cooking in with friends, relaxing with a book or Netflix, or driving people around on a pedal-powered tricycle taxi.
You should message me if
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You hate small talk.
You want to take a bike ride.
You want to tell me how much you can't stand sanctimonious bicyclists.
You want to know what "sanctimonious" means.