I'm a 43 year old man who identifies as primarily bisexual, though
a bit more on the gay side. I haven't seriously dated a woman since
my 20s, but I figured that I'm probably not the only gayish dude
with girl-crushes out there. I'm looking for a woman that I can get
to know, fool around with, and generally explore my otherwise
rather overlooked heterosexuality. Yeah, I don't really know what
it means either. I guess I'm looking for a cool open-minded human
of tbd gender. Poly relationships are also something I could be
Physically I'm a bear, big, tall, wide and hairy. I'm mixed
Anglo/Native, and have some tats. I'm strong, healthy, and not
I like women who don't play the whole feminine expectations game,
but can just be who they are. Physical attributes aren't
everything, but this is a dating site so I will say that I'm one of
those hypocritical big guys who likes smaller ladies on the slimmer
side. I love short hair, round faces, long necks, and cute noses.
If you like to get in front at shows, get into books like the world
doesn't exist around you, ride a motorcycle or prefer beer over
cocktails, we'd probably get along. I can also be attracted to
Anyway, that's it. Say howdy.
What I’m doing with my life
I work, I play rugby, I travel, I read, I see my friends. What
I’m really good at
Tackling people, arguing, kissing, foiling pickpockets, winning
trivia games, getting around any city in the world.
The first things people usually notice about me
My freaking size! I'm a huge dude, 6'3/189 in/cm, 280/125
pounds/kilos of hairy guy. You don't miss it. Next, probably my
voice, which is pretty loud and deep. After that, I'd hope they
notice what I've got to say.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Not gonna fit in this space. But, randomly: Patrick O'Brien/Avett
Brothers/William Gibson/Nina Simone/E. O. Wilson/Henry
Rollins/Escoffier/John Brown/George Orwell/Karl Marx/Eugene V.
Debs/Wendell Berry/Arthur Rimbaud/Edward Abbey/Walt Whitman/Marie
Curie/Charles Baudelaire/Guglielmo Marconi/Maximilien
Robespierre/Harvey Milk/Alan Turing/André Malraux/Nicola
Tesla/Rugby Union/Bob Dylan/Woody Guthrie/Ralph Stanley/Carter
Family/Anthony Bourdain/Richard Rorty/Richard Dawkins
The six things I could never do without
Oxygen, Water, Protein, Vitamins, Minerals, Sunlight
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Sex, politics, language, friends, resources, music, biological
influences on behaviour, whatever I'm reading, the general unhappy
state of things.
On a typical Friday night I am
At a show, at a bar with a beer in my hand, snogging.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Being bisexual, because both gay and straight people tend to freak
out. Also, I love a good nude beach :)
You should message me if
the barn is on fire.