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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25-38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 5:53pm
Asian, Pacific Islander
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Catholicism but it’s not important
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
i dont look my age.. goofy and funny, serious and steady

2nd oldest out of 4... 3 brothers 1 sister..
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Good family - check
Education - check
Job - check.. i do have linkedin.
House - check
Travel - check, but still more places I'd like to visit.
Significant other ---- actively looking :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
wearing my heart on my sleeve!!!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
that I am an asian man; therefore, i like noodle!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: not reading right now!
Music: i'm an Queen Fan, Led Zeppelin, Depeche Mode, Erasure, Alphaville, New Order, Cure, Metallica, 90's RnB.
What is now on my Ipod -
Kid Cudi - Pursuit of Happiness - Katy Perry Fireworks - Enrique Iglesias -Heart Beat - Yeah Yeah Yeah - Maps - Mark Ronson Fet Bruno Mars Uptown Funk
Food: Steak Lover First/Asian/Italian/Latin American/European
Broadway and Ballet - ok!
Movies: War Movies/Action & Adventure/Sci-Fi/B movies (classic)
Sports Teams: Mets/Giants/Knicks/sometimes Rangers Fan. -
I do follow Football (soccer).. just basically sports in general!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family and Friends and my new Nikon D3300
Dogs!!! preferably Corgi and Samoye
Equinox and my T25 and Sports
Books and other reading materials
Good Eats - not just fine dining.
Walking Dead and Penny Dreadful
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my next travel plans - i'm 3/4 wanderlust and 1/4 working hard to support my wanderlust.
not trying to live a perfect life.. but to try to live an inspired life.
why women "click" like my profile but dont message me.. strange huh.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Checklist for my Favorite Restaurants:
Italian: - check
Korean BBQ: - check - check
Oyster places: - Check - Check -Check
Comfort Foods: - Check
Best Lamb Burger: -check

More to come!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I met Jane's Addiction in Lalapalooza in Jones Beach.
I cant swim ... and i was born in a country that is surrounded by the pacific ocean!
I have a HUGE FEAR of heights.. so thrill seekers that want to go zip-lining or skydiving.. not the guy for you lol
I can actually cook and dance.. not ball room though.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
First things first.. i am looking for my best friend first..then everything will fall into place.
You laugh alot and laughter is very important in a relationship like intimacy/sex and love and trust...The most important thing in dates is funny..and that's the one aspect i look at the most. I dont need serious conversations, If i can spend an entire evening not talking about anything serious but i have laughed alot, that's golden!

If you are a beach girl.. nothing more awesome than being at a beach and laughing it up... awesome if you can tan like i can.. but its okay.. i'm happy to put up the umbrella for you if you cant take too much sun =)

If you are good and simple woman who is attractive and who is easy on the eye.. i prefer that you are naturally beautiful.
If you are open minded...and i mean open minded.. i am a man of color .. and if you and your family prefer someone that is within your own skin color, then i'm not the man for you. My family is pretty open minded when it comes to that.. all I want is that you respect my family when you are around them.
Funny, Intelligence, Personable, Caring and all the endearing qualities a woman can possess..someone who is stable and happy with herself.
Potentially ready to settle and have children god willing!

instagram - spencersotto - I use it alot, post my travels and pics.