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38 M Jamaica, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:44pm
Asian, Pacific Islander
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary

“I will search for you through 1,000 worlds and 10,000 lifetimes!”

I was waiting for the train and overheard a couple talking. They seemed really happy and the guy just kept staring at the woman saying "thank you Ok Cupid!" So I walked over to hear more.

The guy kept mentioning that he was so glad she weighed the amount that she wrote and how thankful he was that her pictures were current. I knew I had walked into something special.

The man then mentioned that he can even afford to buy his half of dinner because Ok Cupid was FREE!

I knew it was meant to be and welcome ladies. I am all yours!
What I’m doing with my life
Good family - check
Education - check
Job - check
House - check
Travel - check, but still more places I'd like to visit.
Significant other ---- actively looking :)
I’m really good at
Being a good friend that knows the song in your heart and sings it back to you when you have forgotten how it goes ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
that I am an asian man; therefore, i like noodle!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Currently Reading - Invisible Armies: An epic history of Guerrilla Warfare from Ancient Times to the Present.
Magazines and Papers: Avid reader of the Economist and the Intelligent Life when i can get to it:
Music: i'm an Queen Fan, Led Zeppelin, Depeche Mode, Erasure, Alphaville, New Order, Cure, Metallica, 90's RnB.
What is now on my Ipod - Listening to - Simple Plan fet. Sean Paul - Summer Paradise, Capital Cities - Safe and Sound, Gym Class Heroes - Ass Back Home, Justin - Take Back the Night, Mirrors/Suit n Tie, Robin Thicke - Blurred Lines, John Mayer- Heart of Life, Katy Perry - Teenage Dream and the One that got Away.
Food: Steak Lover First/Asian/Italian/Latin American/European
Broadway and Ballet - ok!
Movies: War Movies/Action & Adventure/Sci-Fi/B movies (classic)
Sports Teams: Mets/Giants/Knicks/sometimes Rangers Fan. -
I do follow Football (soccer).. just basically sports in general!
The six things I could never do without
Family and Friends
Dogs!!! preferably Corgi and Samoye
Equinox and Vibram 5 Fingers
Books and other reading materials
Good Eats - not just fine dining.
Music and Dance
New York Mets... yes.. i am one!! 1986 baby!
Walking Dead/Almost Human/Helix!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
women that like my profile and not attempt to message..what's the point of liking it ?

not trying to live a perfect life.. but to try to live an inspired life.

How much i love Sleep No More - if i ever will be able to do this with my child lol!!!
On a typical Friday night I am
Checklist for my Favorite Restaurants:
Italian: - check
Korean BBQ: - check - check
Oyster places: - Check - Check -Check
Comfort Foods: - Check
Best Lamb Burger: -check

More to come!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I love Ippudo - Ramen and Hot Sake (weird that i will drink hot sake during the summer!! LOL)
I love Scotch and Red Wine
I hate Selfies!!
I met Jane's Addiction in Lalapalooza in Jones Beach.
I cant swim ... and i was born in a country that is surrounded by the pacific ocean!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you want to go to the beach.. and i mean a beach.. either the shore or out in the island.. brooklyn beaches are terrible..

you love broadway and want to see if/then or sleep no more..
just got a recommendation to see queen of the night.. care to come?

if you like to just mozy around the city with me.. and maybe convince me to trek in brooklyn for good food even though i dont like the borough..hey i'm always down for a good eating spot.

that you are a down to earth, easy going, laid back and thoughtful woman that can deal with my random and silly thoughts..

that you want to go out of the US atleast 2x a year and explore parts of the world before we are both 85 yrs old!

you do try to keep your self in shape.. you dont need to be miss fitness USA.. but you make that honest attempt not to let yourself go.. we all are getting older.. and our bodies are not what they are 10 yrs ago lol!!

instagram - spencersotto

Please DO NOT message me.
If you are self conscious about a man having less body hair than you.. sorry i'm asian, it is in my genetics.
If you still have "ex issues" - Mandatory
If you still need to "party out" in the city. - Important
If you are a "serial dater" - Very Important