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49 M London, United Kingdom

My Details

Last Online
Jan 16
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Not at all
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Dropped out of law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Things have changed in my life to the effect that I’m now looking for my soulmate, I know they're out there somewhere and this year I hope that I’ll find them. I know, shock horror, a guy on OKcupid wanting to meet somebody, get to know them and, heaven forbid, maybe start an actual relationship type thing!! No wait!! Come Back!! Yes I really am serious but there’s no need to run!!! I’m looking for somebody to try all life has to offer with, make suggestion and listen to mine so we can experience new and interesting things together. Memories, good or bad, are the only things that others can’t take from you so make them, store them and learn from them. Granted some memories wake me in the early hours and steal sleep from me but I wouldn’t be the person I am if I hadn’t had those experiences so it’s a price that has to be paid.

Well if you’re still here I suppose I should let you know what you’ll get with me. I’m a very open and honest person so you’ll fairly much know how I’m feeling (I do hold some things back at times though) who truly lives by the “you don’t know till you’ve tried it” principle. I have a hefty geek side to me that runs through much of what I do and that, along with my friends, helps to keep me young (heck age is just a number that others use to pigeonhole you with) and I’ve been known to turn up to a Comicon in costume. Bought a camera that I have no idea how to use but want to learn (learnt a bit but still make monumental cock-ups that have resulted in some strangely good pics!), started diving which I love (such an exciting world down there) and trying my best to be creative at which I ultimately seem to fail but enjoy the attempts.

Having stopped drinking I now spend more time exercising at the gym and cycling so am not in bad shape even if I do say so myself (I really should but new pics up). I don’t judge people and take everybody as I find them which has given me such wide expanse of friends covering all sides life. I’ve travelled a bit and want to do far more though as the world needs to be explored. I do seem to live what can only be called an interesting life, I seem to lurch through having great experiences sprinkled with trauma (I’m currently recovering from using my face as a brake while cycling for the second time in a year for example) which makes me think I’m subject to the famous Chinese curse.

Well there’s a quick insight into me and I’ll answer any questions you have so please send me a message if you are interested in the slightest.

Hope to hear from you soon.
What I’m doing with my life
A question I ask myself frequently! Have decided to do the only thing possible in life and just enjoy it!!
I’m really good at
Having fun and making friends. Can fix loads of stuff, cars included and also knock up a mean meal when required!! Also over using exclamaton marks!!!
The first things people usually notice about me
That I've got a face like a spanked arse and a sense of humour!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I have a fairly extensive movie and music collection but as far as favorites go it's difficult to pin point as it depends what mood I'm in as to what it will be.

Always have a book with me, I feel strange if I don't for some reason. My friends actually use my place as a library!

I love all foods but seafood has to be one of my fav's. Doesn't matter what style it's cooked in I just love it. I'm willing to try anything that's put in front of me. How do you know you don't like it till you've tried it?
The six things I could never do without
Films, friends, books, hope, jeans and laughter!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Used to be 'where's my life going?' Now I don't give a damn, I'm just enjoying the ride!!!! Oh and now why mother nature hates me. She hits me in the face with wind on the cycle to work and gets me again on the way home!! Why oh Why? I recycle and everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends either in a pub, having a meal or sometimes off to the cinema.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Can't actually say but if you ask I will tell!!
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I haven't managed to scare you off yet!!