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Spendertw

50 M London, UK

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 35–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:18pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra
Education
Dropped out of law school
Job
Administration
Income
$50,000–$60,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
t's better to have tried and failed than to fail to try. (awaiting moderation)
I am looking for someone to share my ups and downs, my joys and woes and to be the one that can make them smile at the end of a hard day. I love making people happy but hate talking about myself. "A brilliant listener and will always be there to help in a time of need." That bit from a friend who I didn't pay to say it either.

I work on the principal that life isn't a dress rehearsal so you best enjoy the hell out if it, you wont get a second chance. Things that I like to do include travel (Thinking Peru next year!), photography (learnt a bit but still make monumental cock-ups that have resulted in some strangely good pics!), cycling (when I can stay on the damned thing!), diving (seems I only like this in warm water, who knew!), just started indoor rock climbing, reading, I just love to read and trying my best to be creative at which I ultimately seem to fail but enjoy the attempts. I'm well house trained and can even cook pretty damned well.

What am I looking for? Meeting people and getting to know them is fine with me, can you have to many friends? If things progress to be more then that'll be fantastic but I have no expectations if we meet apart from the fact we want to get to know more about each other.

Well if you’re still here I suppose I should let you know what you’ll get with me. I’m a very open and honest person so you’ll fairly much know how I’m feeling (I do hold some things back at times though) who truly lives by the “you don’t know till you’ve tried it” principle. I have a hefty geek side to me that runs through much of what I do and that, along with my friends, helps to keep me young, heck age is just a number that others use to pigeonhole you with.

Having stopped drinking I now so spend more time exercising at the gym and cycling so am not in bad shape even if I do say so myself (I really should but new pics up). I don’t judge people and take everybody as I find them which has given me such wide expanse of friends covering all sides life. I’ve travelled a bit and want to do far more though as the world needs to be explored. I do seem to live what can only be called an interesting life, I seem to lurch through having great experiences sprinkled with trauma which makes me think I’m subject to the famous Chinese curse.

Well there’s a quick insight into me and I’ll answer any questions you have so please send me a message if you are interested in the slightest.

Hope to hear from you soon.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
A question I ask myself frequently! Have decided to do the only thing possible in life and just enjoy it!!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Having fun and making friends. Can fix loads of stuff, cars included and also knock up a mean meal when required!! Also over using exclamaton marks!!!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That there's a village somewhere missing it's idiot and the he keeps smiling for some reason!
I'm tallish.
If they've met me before that there used to be a lot more of me.
That I cant pull off the hat choice.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I have a fairly extensive movie and music collection but as far as favorites go it's difficult to pin point as it depends what mood I'm in as to what it will be.

Always have a book with me, I feel strange if I don't for some reason. My friends actually use my place as a library!

I love all foods but seafood has to be one of my fav's. Doesn't matter what style it's cooked in I just love it. I'm willing to try anything that's put in front of me. How do you know you don't like it till you've tried it?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Films, friends, books, hope, jeans and laughter!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Used to be 'where's my life going?' Now I don't give a damn, I'm just enjoying the ride!!!! Oh and now why mother nature hates me. She hits me in the face with wind on the cycle to work and gets me again on the way home!! Why oh Why? I recycle and everything.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends either in a pub, having a meal or sometimes off to the cinema.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Can't actually say but if you ask I will tell!!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
I haven't managed to scare you off yet!!