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My self-summary
I had a well thought out, well written summary but apparently it was not appealing to many of you. Such is life.

So instead I'm going to post Tom Waits lyrics. I'm sure that will be much more productive. ;)

"Saving All My Love For You"

it's too early for the circus, it's too late for the bars, no one's sleepin'
but the paperboys, and no one in this town is makin' any noise, but the dogs
and the milkmen and me.

the girls around here all look like cadillacs, no one likes a stranger here,
i'd come home but i'm afraid that you won't take me back, but i'd trade off
everything just to have you near.

i know i'm irresponsible and i don't behave, and i ruin everything that i
do, and i'll probably get arrested when i'm in my grave, but i'll be savin'
all my love for you.

i paid fifteen dollars for a prostitute, with too much makeup and a broken
shoe, but her eyes were just a counterfeit, she tried to gyp me out of it, but
you know that i'm still in love With you.

don't listen to the rumors that you hear about me, cause i ain't Half as bad as
they make me out to be, well i may lose my mind but baby can't you see, that
i'll be savin' all my love for you.
What I’m doing with my life
Trying to reinvent my life again.

Besides that I spend most of my free time with my children. They are my greatest inspiration and motivation and I learn more from them than I have learned from any class, book, or teacher that I have ever had.
I’m really good at
Juggling my many responsibilities to my children and work. I'm not so good at taking care of responsibilities towards myself at times but I'm working on it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I have no idea.... Probably that I need a shave and that I look somewhat disheveled.

Someone once told me I have nice hands.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Way too long of a question to answer.

I have varied interests and like a broad spectrum of all of these things. I'm always willing to be exposed to new things.

I don't read as much as I would like and could use some book suggestions. I have read more kids books in the last 9 years than adult ones. I guess that goes for music, movies, and tv as well.

See I told you I need some adult interaction.
The six things I could never do without
The only thing I can't live without at this point is my children. After a divorce you pretty much lose everything you ever worked and strived for... Well at least in my case. I'm not angry or bitter about it, I realized how unimportant so much of what we cling to is.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I should approach contacting you. I suck at small talk because it's just seems so pointless. I guess I don't have "game".

I certainly don't want to come off as boring but I can sometimes border on being crass. Not because I'm an ass but because I'm a social malcontent.

I'm the type that would message you to tell you how attractive your.... Insert apropriate physical or personality attribute here... But I don't want to come off as one of " those guys".

I've never done any online dating before so it seems pretty alien to me.

Any suggestions on how to start up a conversation if I like your profile and think you would be interesting to talk to?
On a typical Friday night I am
Working or with my kids. I'd love to carve out some time for myself and someone else.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm pretty open actualy. Just ask me whatever you want. I'm not embarrassed, ashamed, or regretful of anything that I have done or that has happened in my life.
You should message me if
You want to talk to / hang out with someone who is genuine.

I'm not into games or bullshit.

I'm not going to lie to you about anything, what good ever becomes of that?

You want something casual or possibly serious. I'm happy with either.