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Sphinx1913

54 F Wheaton, IL

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:33am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Sales / Marketing
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Sitting here with my fingers poised above the keyboard wondering how to "break through the clutter" and craft a knock-out profile. It's not easy, the competition is fierce.

Looking for normal. Now define normal. My normal....you know. Someone who likes women, isn't a player, enjoys golf, maybe even rides a motorcycle like me. Smart, giving, a good friend, someone who enjoys international travel. Well read. Enjoys stimulating conversation. Knows how to have fun. Loves to laugh. Not too self absorbed. Gainfully employed.

Are you out there? Please identify yourself immediately, if not sooner!! :) We live in such a world of immediate gratification, naturally I would want my perfect match to appear instantaneously! ;) The key to dating, and we all know it, is chemistry. These profiles are far too one dimensional to be able to discern the chemistry quotient. Too much to ask? Who knows. Guess I will have to wait and see. My heart tells me you are out there so I will keep looking.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a joiner and a leader. With no children to keep me occupied, my life has been spent working a grueling corporate job with lots of travel, and investing my time in organizations and causes. I volunteer for many different types of activities - too numerous to list here.

One little fun fact is that I am working on a renovation project this summer in downstate Illinois. Challenging and fun all at the same time. Enjoying working with the trades and getting the project organized so that we can move 50+ women into it come August. Yep, it's a sorority house and a 100-year old home that needs a lot of TLC. How apropos that I would be out of work at the moment so that I have time to devote to this labor of love. A 18,000 square foot Georgian home that needs a lot of help.

Wondering now what to do with the second half of my life. Great book I read not terribly long ago....Claiming Your Place at the Fire, Living The Second Half of Your Life. Quite an introspective read.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a great friend and good listener. Give great dinner parties and love bringing lots of eclectic people together for a fabulous evening of food and wine.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Eyes and smile. Maybe hair?? Who knows....

And just the other day a gal pal mentioned my laugh. She says its a great laugh. Whaaaat? Any laugh is a great laugh. Beats the alternative.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
My list of movies, books, and food may scare y'all away. I hate chain restaurants but love the movies and especially live theatre. There are not enough bookshelves in my house!

Okay, one other guilty pleasure is dancing with the stars. Love to dance. Actually used to do some ice dancing. Hard to find good partners for regular ballroom dance, let alone ice dancing. So I live it vicariously on DWTS. No jokes please. :)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Flowers, golf courses, Oberweis Peppermint Ice Cream, my family, summer and laughing. Oh yeah, one more item. My Kawasaki Vulcan 900.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to improve my golf game. This is the year....I am going to get back into the 80s. And I don't mean the temperature!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Never mind where I am or what I am doing...what are you doing?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I cannot figure out how to use my IPhone properly. I am a techno-knucklehead!

You will get nothing more from me for a response in this category....
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 45–60
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you can write a complete sentence with full punctuation and correct spelling. And you think I am kidding? I am not.

OK, guys, I have taken a lot of abuse about this statement. I am sorry if I have offended some of you. That was not the intent. But, let me qualify the statement by saying it's important to me that my man sound intelligent. The written word is but a part of the entire package. Useless to some, but important to me. Enough said.