I'm not seeking to change you or to be changed, we are both the people we have developed into. Do you go beyond the norm of what society dictates? Do you dare?! I'm enjoying the prime of my life with an energetic youthfulness and playfulness...want to join me?! I won't pressure you to get married or to have babies with me as the 20 and 30 somethings do - let the later 40s men marry them and impregnate them!!

Regardless of what I have written in my profile, you'll look at my pictures and make a decision from there... but... if you're still reading...carry on....lol... My kids are grown and I don't want to add more to the gene pool, but ready made children are welcome as they're part of you, yet practicing is great fun when involved with someone (that means I'm into dating and eventually being involved with one guy - no not marriage!).

I am a respectful person and like it in return. I like a decisive man who can keep a plan... one that has integrity, in that you don't have to wonder if he'll do what he says. If you are younger (yes I usually date younger) or around my age - if are not totally chauvinistic, and you can appreciate a fun-loving woman in the prime of her life, let's explore the possibilities. Yes I am single and legally divorced, are you?!

I'm a 5'1", blonde, green eyed woman with curves in all the right places, a girlie girl who loves to wear high heels and to dress feminine, keep her nails long and manicured, and to look pretty and sexy for her guy. Yet I enjoy going to a Red Wings or Tigers' game or just playing outside! I want to try white water rafting this year. I can be serious when need be, but I'm very creative and passionate, so time spent with me is always fun as I'll keep you guessing what I'll do next!. I'm down for trying new activities. Let's laugh and enjoy life!

I'm playful, expressive, sensual, sincere, affectionate, caring, decisive, and sure of myself. I'm not clingy, needy, or a game player, and I hope that you aren't either. I'm self sufficient, but love it when someone does something showing they have interest and that they care... I do the same. I also love to spoil my guy with affection and attention, yet know we both need our space at times also and I'm good with that.

I am not seeking a totally dominant man, but one who has good core values, is sure of himself, and isn't afraid to express his ideas and to show his manly and his softer side with me. I'm not into drama and seek a non argumentative man, but one who can have a lively discussion about many things, and have fun in and out of the bedroom. Yet we can be spontaneous together as well at times.

I'm not in a hurry and will let things develop naturally. We can meet for something simple (preferably not a coffee date though), with no pressure or expectations, and see where things go from there. I try to meet within about 2 weeks of talking, since only the first meet will determine if mutual attraction exists for more. No amount of emailing, texting, or talking on the phone will equal the face to face live meet to reveal the truth! If we don't click, I am a courteous person, we simply go our own way afterward, nothing ventured nothing gained! If you never plan to meet, but only want to talk online, I am not looking for an email or text buddy.

I DO NOT DATE MARRIED MEN OR THOSE ALREADY IN A RELATIONSHIP, so please x out of my profile. I have never cheated and will not help you to do so either. Also, if you are separated, but ONLY in your mind, or consider yourself divorced, but you aren't on paper, don't contact me.

I guarantee you will never meet another woman like me! Can you handle a challenge?! I'm all about the journey and what I experience along the way, there are plenty of destinations, not just one! Are you ready to join me?!!!

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A side note - I DO NOT GO BY THE % MATCH THING HERE since I've found they are not always right. I give a guy chance to show me who he is. Yet, reading your answers to these crazy questions on here can be enlightening as to how you are and what you like (as long as you answer them honestly). I did.

Making a person feel at ease and comfortable, and seeing the best in them. I sense things easily and am great at motivating and encouraging others.

Men always like my voice and how feminine I am. A woman can be intelligent AND feminine! Ok and sassy too!

Let's talk about it and see how many we have in common....
I have to leave something open to explore together.

Great Friends and Family and YOU!
Affection - Respect - Caring - Sexual Intimacy
Fresh Coffee with chocolate caramel creamer
Chocolate (Molten Chocolate Lava Cake, hot Choc Chip Cookies)
My Cell (How will I sext you otherwise! J/K)
Challenging myself and continuing to learn and try new things

Having Fun and Enjoying Life as much as possible! New and exciting things and activities to try and explore together. Ways to surprise you! Life in general and how I can continue to learn more.

Out with friends, on a date (when I enjoy being my Girlie self with my sexy heels and skirts), a spontaneous road trip, or spending time with those I care about.

Hmmmm...it's a secret!

If you're not afraid to go beyond the norm of what society dictates to date a playfully classy girlie girl in the prime of her life and enjoying it completely, let's talk. I'm a feisty lady with fire and a little devil in her... looking for someone to hang out with and to see where it goes. I'm open to more eventually... if it happens at all, but I believe in letting it develop naturally, not rushing it. In the meantime, I'd like to just have fun doing things for now, as we get to know each other and see if the possibilities are there.

I date one man at a time, not multiple men, and pride myself on never having cheated. I'm not seeking players or man hoes. I call it like I see it. With kids grown and on their own, I live alone (and am emotionally healthy and past the newly divorced issues).

Being SINGLE doesn't mean you're WEAK. It means you're STRONG enough to wait for what you know you deserve and not merely to settle. I'm enjoying single life for now, until I find someone worth while. Could that be you? ;-) I do as I say and can be counted on, so you'll never have to wonder, I seek the same from you.

One last thing, sorry about the lengthy profile... I know how much you guys hate to read these things... brownie points if you actually read it and comment on something in my profile! lol.