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49 F West Bloomfield, MI

My Details

Last Online
Jul 18
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids

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My self-summary
First of all, I have to say I just don't get this polyamorous, non-monogamous, open marriage stuff! Why get married, if all you do is want others also besides your wife? Just stay single and be a player! I know those of you on here use this as an excuse to be with women sexually and otherwise, when you're married, but it just seems like an excuse to cheat and isn't a true traditional marriage at all. But I guess if it works for you whatever. But please if you are into any of what I mentioned above, don't bother contacting me at all. I had to say this because so many of you seem to think I'm into that and I'm completely against it and cheating.

I'm enjoying my life with an energetic playfulness... are you willing to take a chance to go beyond your age and what society dictates as the norm... to meet a classy, sassy, fun-loving lady with a spicy attitude? I'm not seeking to change you or to be changed, we're both the people we've developed into. I date younger and up, depending on the guy.

I won't pressure you for the white picket fence fantasy that the 20 and 30 something breeders do, for marriage and babies (or they trap you by letting themselves get prego). That path doesn't interest me. I'm enjoying single life unless someone worthwhile comes along. I do things for myself, but I admire a man who enjoys doing the little things for changing a burned out light bulb in the bathroom that he can easily reach up high. I appreciate a kind and thoughtful man....but he would like to have fun and excitement too! BTW, I'm not into an "Open Relationship" of any type or married men.

My kids are grown and on their own, so I have time to spoil a great guy as we have great times together, going out or staying in. We can cook together, try new activities, just so many things. Let's learn something new from each other. I can be serious when need be, but I'm very creative and passionate, so time spent with me is always fun as I'll keep you guessing what I'll do next! Let's laugh and enjoy life!

I like to plan things but can be spontaneous also. Although a first meeting is usually easier planned. But you are willing to meet in person, because endless messaging or texting does not translate into a connection, physical attraction is a necessity, so you have to actually meet to find out if you mesh well or not.

I have integrity and do what I say, I hope you do also. Being SINGLE doesn't mean you're WEAK. It means you're STRONG enough to wait for what you know you deserve and not merely to settle. I'm a confident woman and know what I want in life, but I'm also a student of life who will always learn and try new things...always with more goals as I grow in my life. I also encourage and help a man when in my life, to strive for and reach his true potential challenge himself to more.
What I’m doing with my life
Growing and learning, exploring, and enjoying more in life.
I’m really good at
Making a person feel at ease and comfortable, and seeing the best in them. I sense things easily and am great at motivating and encouraging others. I'm a very positive person and can communicate easily.
The first things people usually notice about me
Men always like my voice, how feminine I am, my expressive eyes, my long pretty nails, and my big smile. A woman can be feminine, intelligent, and sassy too!
On a typical Friday night I am
Nothing about me is typical!
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 28–48
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
I appeal to you and you want to know more about me. You're a man with do what you say and keep your promises.

We can meet for something simple (preferably not for coffee though), or something different and fun, with no pressure or expectations, and see where things go from there. I try to meet within about 2 weeks of talking, since only the first meet will determine if mutual attraction exists for more - as chemistry has to be felt, it can't be measured totally through the internet, texting or talking on the phone.

You're true to yourself and don't care what others think. You're positive and see the best in others and enjoy life.

I read this and it's so true: It’s Better To Have No One In Your Life Than Someone Who Is Only Half There