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49 F West Bloomfield, MI

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 28–48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:10pm
5′ 1″ (1.55m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Has kids

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My self-summary
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I'm not seeking to change you or to be changed, we're both the people we've developed into. I date younger and up, depending on the guy. I like to learn about and experienc new cultures. I feel you can learn a lot from other people. I'm not closed minded.

I won't pressure you for the baby and marriage thing that the 20 and 30 something breeders do (or they trap you by letting themselves get prego). That path doesn't interest me, nor does the game playing they do. I love kids, so it's ok if you have them, but I don't want to make more kids to raise 18+ years.

I'm enjoying my life with an energetic playfulness... are you willing to take a chance to go beyond your age and what society dictates as the norm... to meet a classy, sassy, fun-loving lady with a spicy attitude?

Soon the Fall will be here, so we can have great walks in the woods enjoying the color changes, the crisp Fall air, fun cider mills with tasty cider and warm donuts, haunted houses and more.

I'm enjoying single life until someone worthwhile comes along. I'm self sufficient, but I admire a man who enjoys doing the little things for changing a burned out light bulb by the bathroom mirror that he can easily reach up high that I have to get a chair to do since I'm just 5'1". I appreciate a kind and thoughtful man....but he also likes fun and excitement too! BTW, I'm not into an "Open Relationship" of any type or married men looking for side action. I've never cheated once in my life.

My kids are grown and on their own, so I have time to spoil a great guy... we'll have great times together, going out or staying in. Could this be you? We can cook together, try new activities, there are just so many possibilities. Let's learn something new from each other. I'm very creative and passionate, so you'll always have fun with'll wonder what I'll do next! Let's laugh and enjoy life!

I like to plan things but can be spontaneous also. Although a first meeting is usually easier planned. You have to be willing to meet in person, because endless emails, messaging, or texting does not translate into a connection. Physical attraction is a necessity, so you have to actually meet in person, to find out if you mesh well or not.

Being SINGLE doesn't mean you're WEAK. It means you're STRONG enough to wait for what you know you deserve and not merely to settle. I'm a confident woman and know what I want in life, but I'm also a student of life who will always learn and try new things... always having more goals as I grow in my life. When involved with a guy, I encourage my partner to strive for more and reach his true potential challenge himself for more. I have integrity and do what I say, I hope you do also.

I don't give too much thought to the percentages here. But if you have no pic and nothing filled out on your profile, I can see you're really not here to date or into this much. Take a chance and contact me (with more than a mere hi or you probably won't get a response from me). Good luck to all....
What I’m doing with my life
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Growing and learning, exploring, and enjoying more in life.
I’m really good at
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Making a person feel at ease and comfortable, and seeing the best in them. I sense things easily and am great at motivating and encouraging others. I'm a very positive person and can communicate easily.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Men always like my voice, how feminine I am, my expressive eyes, my long pretty nails, and my big smile. A woman can be feminine, intelligent, and sassy too!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Nothing about me is typical!
You should message me if
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I appeal to you and you want to know more about me. You're a man with do what you say and keep your promises. You're true to yourself and can communicate with a woman and enjoy doing so. You're positive, not rude, see the best in others, and enjoy life.

We can meet for something simple (preferably not for coffee though), or something different and fun, with no pressure or expectations, and see where things go from there. I try to meet within about 2 weeks of talking, since only the first meet will determine if mutual attraction exists for more - as chemistry has to be felt, it can't be measured totally through the internet, texting or talking on the phone.

Go ahead... take a chance... can you? ;)