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SpiderJay

22 / M / bisexual / Single

Worms, Germany

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.82m).
Body Type
Fit
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners, Casual sex
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), German (Fluently)

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I am hopeful, compassionate, and fearless.

My Self-Summary

I don't like saying nice things about myself so much. So I'm gonna say that I'm weird and usually people think that I take stuff way too serious. But in reality I am always open for anything and hate prejudging.

I am bound by strong personal morals that most often don't really make sense to others, since they are somewhat different from the standards. However they've never really given me any big problems so far, and I think that in general I can act a lot more spontaneous and free than other people can.

List of personal interests/hobbies:
anime, art, comics, cartoons, classic literature, classic movies, direction, fitness, horror, horror movies, image editing, indie films, jogging, manga, martial arts, music, paranormal, philosophy, photography, psychology, rapping, reading, society, sexuality, video editing, writing

What I’m doing with my life

Trying not to have any regrets. I don't really fear the future, so I don't need a direction, I just take the path that seems like the right one to me.

But for the germans eager to know something about the career stuff:
Ich mache eine schulische Ausbildung zum staatlich geprüften Sozialassistenten (there is no way I'm trying to figure out the right way of saying that in english).

I’m really good at

Supporting others. I enjoy helping friends and giving advice to them.

The first things people usually notice about me

My nerd hobbies, the strange answers I'm giving and the strange questions that I'm asking.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Zauberberg (Mann), The Colour Out Of Space (Lovecraft), Ansichten Eines Clowns (Böll), Craig's Little Dawn (Skylark), For Whom The Bell Tolls (Hemingway), The Sound And The Fury (Faulkner), Don Quixote (Cervantes), Macbeth (Shakespeare), Peter Pan (Barrie)

Movies: The Fountain, Casablanca, Predator, 300, Requiem For A Dream, Do The Right Thing, Rules Of Attraction, The Haunting (orig.), Apocalypse Now!, Key Largo, City Of God, Shortbus, Gran Torino, Annie Hall, Clerks

Music: Classical Music : Liszt, Wagner, Chopin... ; Jazz : Wesseltoft, Davis, Adderley... ; Folk : Jay Brannan, Damien Rice, Antony and the Johnsons... ; Metal : Incantation, Morbid Angel, Darkthrone... ; Hip-Hop : Wu-Tang Clan, P.O.S., Jedi Mind Tricks... ; Noise : Merzbow, Nurse With Wound, Masonna... ; Drone : Earth, Sunn O))), Sun Araw...

Food: Junk food and sweets :3

The six things I could never do without

I don't need things that much.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Human emotions, psychological backgrounds and other abstract constructs.

On a typical Friday night I am

Sitting at home, because everything else seems too boring to even get up for.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Uhm. I don't do that, keeping stuff so private that I'm not willing to share it. Just ask something.

You should message me if

...you're sick of people writing specific and cocky demands in this part right here.

Apart from that, you can just write me whether you're looking for a geeky convo or a serious relationship (for that you can even live in some weird german city like 400km away from me - I've done worse). If you're just horny or something say it up front as well. Make your goals known, since I'm socially neither retarded nor afraid of a bit of text or some weird stuff like that, being honest and direct saves time and feels a lot less immature to me.

And yes, I am desperately trying to avoid the "you want to" answer, because I didn't know that it was this cliched on here.