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Spiderbabyx

31 / F / bisexual / Married

Des Moines, Iowa

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Other, Undeclared
Height
5' 4" (1.62m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Other
Sign
Cancer
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Has children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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I am eccentric, intellectual, and lusty.

My Self-Summary

Here I am, understood to be short for "Here I am, rock you like a hurricane". Uh, I'm eccentric, I'm from Iowa, you'll either think I'm hilarious and fun or really crazy. Maybe both. My best feature is my brain. I'm poly and married.

What I’m doing with my life

Right now I'm exploring my options. Currently I'm home with my youngest daughter and I do day care for a friend of mine. I am tentatively planning to return to school for my baccalaureate, but being there for my daughters has top priority.

I’m really good at

Making Kringla (it's a Norweigan thing). :-)

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The first things people usually notice about me

My smile or my monochromatic wardrobe

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

a) Fantasy Fiction, Sci fi, True Crime, General fiction, Forensic Pathology, Memoirs. I love to read and will read from pretty much every genre except Romance and Westerns.

b) Anything weird, scary, or with a cool twist. Rocky Horror Picture Show, Clockwork Orange, Twin Peaks: Fire Walk With Me, The Strangers, etc. Oh and I'm a *HUGE* Star Trek fan (esp. Next Generation). I also LOVE zombie movies (Dawn of the Dead, Zombieland, etc).

c) Oh, I like just about everything except country and hard core rap

d) Fresh salsa and tortilla chips, grilled veggies, organic gala apples, pizza, coffee, and of course chocolate.

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The six things I could never do without

Excluding the obvious (air, water, food, shelter, etc)

1) My family & friends 2) My cats 3) Books 4) The internets 5) PC Games 6) Somewhere wild to get away to.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

The meaning of life, sex, school, my family, my friends, things I'm reading or have read, quantum realities, just normal everyday stuff like that. LOL.

On a typical Friday night I am

Probably hanging out here, reading, playing World of Warcraft, possibly going to bookstores or the library.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Uh...that I used to show people my boobs a lot.

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You should message me if

You're looking for someone unusual to pal around with or something like that. Or if you just like to talk to weirdoes.