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Spiderseye

45 San Francisco, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Today – 3:17pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Medicine
Status
Married
Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

My self-summary

I am comfortable in my own skin and don't feel much need to appear any greater than I am. I have found that if I am honest with myself and follow my intuition, that I tend to find myself where I want to be. One of my personal philosophies is to lean gently toward the positive. Happy is my default.

What I’m doing with my life

I am a relatively recent transplant to San Francisco, having moved here in December of 2011. I work in the clinical lab at a local hospital and love coming home to my apartment below Twin Peaks with a view of downtown, the bay and the hills beyond. Life is good.

I’m really good at

I love to dance.... without a doubt my favorite physical activity. I enjoy couples dance and have some background in swing and salsa. My real passion is free-form to anything that's meant to be danced to, really.... I like everything from melodic poly-rhythmic electronica to greasy funk to hip-hop to a tight bar band. And I tear it up.

I'm a good communicator and a good friend. I laugh easily. I have a sharp wit and a playful streak. I make tasty food.

The first things people usually notice about me

That I'm real. I like being appropriately transparent, honest, and open.

That I am socially extroverted.... while being a total introvert.

Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food

Movies......I don't watch regular television at all and haven't for years. I love movies tho and enjoy sharing that experience. I tend to shy away from shallow blockbusters (but enjoy a well-made one) and gravitate mainly toward films that make me think and feel. My favorites include "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind", "The World According to Garp", "V for Vendetta", and "The City of Lost Children". Oh, and "Hedwig and the Angry Inch".

Music..... where to start. I love it. Not radio pop. I love melody and innovation.... simplicity and complexity. And I have a thing for backing vocals. Some favorites: Wilco, Spoon, Leonard Cohen, The Mountain Goats, The Minders....

When it comes to live music I gravitate to either bands that make me dance, or in some way put on a show. I love good dj's (Tipper, NastyNasty, etc). There are plenty of bands that I like and play at home, but who I won't readily go see live.

Food..... I am a total foodie and I love to head out into the city and explore the wonderful food options we have here. Some favorites are Mission Beach Cafe, Blue Plate, Central Kitchen and Zazie. I buy organic for home and don't feel bad at all paying more for truly free-roam eggs and more-humane meat. I love vegetables.

The six things I could never do without

My beautiful wife and adorable daughter.

Dancing.

Meaningful and intimate friendships.

Accessible culture.

A non-Safeway-style source of quality food.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Travel.... where I might go next and when. I have a passion for Latin America and go there whenever I can. I have traveled in Nicaragua, Costa Rica, Belize, Guatemala and of course Mexico, which I love. I spent a few months living in Argentina and know that I will return there someday for sure. Buenos Aires is a gem of a city.

On a typical Friday night I am

Playing with my daughter.

Shuffling cards and making plays with friends.

Eating out.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit

Right here, right now, in this setting.....

That I like living simply and avoid clutter in my home. I like making the things we have to do every day as smooth as possible. I value tranquility.

You should message me if

You like to dance and want a co-conspirator.

You like good conversation, intimacy, and trust wrapped into your friendships.

You like to play games.

You know what a 2/2 first striker with vigilance is.

The two of us

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Today – 3:17pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Religion
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Medicine
Status
Married
Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)