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21 / M / gay / Single

Asheville, North Carolina

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
—
Religion
Atheism but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Unemployed
Income
—
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Okay)

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I am quiet, eccentric, and such.

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My Self-Summary

I'd rather spend my free time hanging out in private, with movies, video games, nerdy stuff. I'm a tad more mature than what my hobbies might suggest though. I used to weight 320lbs, and I've managed to lose 125lbs since then. Do I hate fat? Nope. It looks good on some people. It did on me, heheh.

What I’m doing with my life

Right now, I live with my parents, job huntin'... Avoiding food service. Need to get back into college after I work up a tuition and finish my computer engineering. Will be traveling a bit, might be moving away in the future. I'm on a diet, as I've mentioned before, lost a ton of weight, trying to get down to... something, but I don't want to overdo it.

I’m really good at

Listening! Aaand playing videogames. I make electronic music and fuck around on my guitar a bit. I uuused to be awesome at playing french horn. But gave up after deciding I hated everyone in my symphonic class. I'm good at honesty, and I try not to be a dick about it. Must use my powers for good.

The first things people usually notice about me

They go "Holy shit you lost weight!" if they've seen me before. If they haven't, they probably notice I'm quiet, so they have to assume I'm stuck up or something :/ I'm nooot, darnit. I just hafta warm up to ya.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books! I'm reading Ender's Game again. Cyberpunk or books on interesting non-fictiony things.
Movies? Sci-fi psychological thrillers and documentaries.
Music. Electronic anything, from kraftwerk to MGMT
Food: Anything. Really, anything. On this diet, anything you can think of sounds delicious to me. Om nom nom. ...So hungry :o

The six things I could never do without

The internet, my online friends, diet generic brand green tea, my little box of mementos from distant friends, my little stuffed fox, FL Studio 8

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Planning and scheming... about what I'm gonna eat, or what to play or watch next.

On a typical Friday night I am

Gaming on the computer, watchin' some weird 80's sci-fi psychological thriller, or hangin' with my friends playing some sort of rpg.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have social anxiety, I'm not too big in the pants, I'm an open book people. But you have to ask. :P

You should message me if

Message me if you're lookin' for an affectionate, nice guy that isn't superficial or douchebaggy.

Don't message me if you're lookin' for someone only to look good with, or to simply increment your friends list.

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