I'm GGG(See: Dan Savage), ENFP, and a top; an affectionate flirt with a shocking sense of humor. I laugh a lot. I'm not a "guy's guy". I'm LGBT friendly. Goofy. Silly. Ready to argue the point with a grin on my face. Intense and relaxed, often at the same time.
I hope you like all that.
If you are against abortion rights, if you are against LGBT constitutional civil rights, if you are an active alcoholic/addict/2 pack-a-day smoker, if you are fanatically religious, then it's not going to happen for us.
If you are not in the 95th percentile or better of big, sexy brains and do not have a pretty high okc match or friend percentage with me then, well, hmmm...
I've been around and have the adventure stories, scars, and mementos to show for it. Louisville, Chicago, Ann Arbor, NYC, Los Angeles, Martha's Vineyard, Canada, Mexico, Brazil, Europe,(note Oxford comma!) and have circled the US a bunch.
New Orleans too. I felt it when I arrived one August twilight to work a gig at sweaty Tipitina's and eat many "hangover breakfasts" at Uglesich's.
I am home.
I am a reader. Usually one Tome and one Pulp at any given time. Newspapers(MUST have Sunday NYT), magazines, and local free papers as well.
Classic Hollywood and a lot else in film entertains me. TV here and there.
Music, especially live, makes me happy. I swing dance to a greasy Jump Blues band on a weeknight. I karaoke at a LGBT/mixed bar.
I fall into parades and Second Lines. I find myself in costume more than many folks, but not nearly often enough.
I listen to WWOZ, WTUL, and WWNO a lot.
I like the visual and performing arts.
My sartorial and decorating style are antique, vintage, and thrift with a few Mod Cons thrown in for utility and contrast.
I have creative impulses. I studied acting, have some visual arts and design talent, I sing and play garage guitar. I sew but treat my Singer Touch and Sew like a funny car at the strip. I owned a vintage clothing shop that specialized in costume/formal wear rental. We drank, dressed up and partied a lot. Training for NOLA, hmm?
I like cats, and they like me. Aww, hell, I like dogs and they like me too.
I like to cook, love to eat out and I mix a wunnerful cocktail.
I pedal everywhere in all weather on the Basket Bomber Schwinn. Black Betty the Battlewagon gets fired up when haulin' needs doin'.
I like to travel. Day trips, weekenders, national and international. I hike the ruins, stroll the museums and galleries, lounge on the beaches, dance to the music, eat the local dishes and drink the local fermented and distilled beverages.
I'm trying to do all those fun/goofy/silly events, openings, civic activities, art and culture thingies, and political outreach that make neighborhood and local life fulfilling.
It is so much better and more fun with a partner.
Are you cynically hopeful, judgmentally open minded, adventurous but not reckless, unusual good-weird but not a hot mess? Stylish and substantial? Inquisitive and engaging? Do you take pretty good care of yourself and like to like the way you look?
I occasionally like a little lipstick, makeup, and high heels.
On YOU, silly.