Chubby dude in his late 30's, not into hook ups. Looking for chemistry and personality. I have been single for a few years and feel like I have exercised any demons I may have had in that time. Not looking to get serious instantly but would like to know it is something we could work towards. I'm not a serial dater and really am bored with the bar and club scene. I work overnight and keep odd hours. I think smiles and laughs are worth more than gold. I love passionate people with an odd sensibility.
What I’m doing with my life
Working too much, sleeping too little, learning new things, trying
to cook outside of my skill set,walking my dog, reading more than
could be healthy for any human being.
I’m really good at
One liners, sarcasm, obvious observations, watching bad movies, caring more about what my dog thinks about me than other people do. Sleeping through important events, discussing theoretical cosmology.
The first things people usually notice about me
Tattoos, facial hair and eye lashes are what people comment on
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Carl Sagan, Neil Degrasse Tyson, Michio Kaku, Howard Zinn, Noam Chomsky, Mumia Abu Jamal, Greg Graffin, Poppy Z. Brite, Lilith Saintcrow, Ray Bradbury, Issac Asimov, George Orwell, H.G Wells, Arthur C. Clark, Hellen Keller
Movies: The Beyond, Suspiria, Return Of The Living Dead, Critters, Pan's Labyrinth, V For Vendetta, Phenomena, They Live, The Thing, Night Of The Demons(87), Repo Man, Suburbia(82), Contact, 2001: A Space Odyssey, Sixteen Candles, Pretty In Pink, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Boys Don't Cry, The Crying Game, Drop Dead Fred, Texas Chainsaw Massacre 2, Alien, Silent Running, Streets of Fire is my all time favorite movie ever.
TV: The Universe, How The Universe Works, Nova: Science Now
Music: Crust Punk, Grindcore, Doom Metal, Death Metal, Sludge, Thrash, Hardcore, Anarcho Punk, Old School straight up Metal, Industrial, Synth Pop, Dark Wave, Real Country(Not the current pop shit that is popular) Psychedelic, Proto-Metal, Noise Rock, Power Violence, Power Electronics, old school goth, new wave, no wave, cold wave, pretty much anything aside from top 40 radio.
The six things I could never do without
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Better and quicker ways to fall asleep, the importance of vinyl as
a musical format, why people seem to argue over things they
basically agree on, argyle socks, chamomile tea and my growing
addiction to it.
On a typical Friday night I am
Everyday is different, sometimes things repeat, but not often
enough to be typical.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't drive, I hated doing it, some people love it and are good
at it. I could not get the idea that I was in control of a 2 ton
eco system destroying projectile out of my head enough to be
comfortable with it. I own a Vespa but live in a community close
knit and urban enough to be utterly OK with walking or biking to
pretty much anywhere I need or want to go.
You should message me if
You are awake at 3am, you can carry a conversation on things other
than TV or sports, you love cosmology, your genetalia does not
dominate your needs, you appreciate vinyl, gourmet tea and dogs.