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28 Spokane, WA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18-80
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Mar 21
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Working on University
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently), Sign Language (Somewhat), German (Somewhat), Japanese (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am an extremely kinky, mostly submissive gal that is looking for connections of various kinds.

First off, I help lead several local kinky groups. First and foremost I am looking to connect new people to the local scene. So think of me as not just one possible connection, but many! I know people, dewd!

For myself, I am in a committed Polyamorous relationship. This means that I have a girlfriend but I can and do date other people. I live with the father of my child, but we are currently exploring other options. My girl and I are deeply connected, but don't see each other as often as I would like.

I am looking for dominant and intelligent FWBs, male or female. Must be intelligent, nerdy, and interesting to talk to.

Feel free to contact me with any questions!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I am a Karaoke DJ, party coordinator, nerd model, cosplayer and writer for a national indie magazine. I am in school to be a Sign Language Interpreter and might get myself and AFA while I am at it to better my vocal craft.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Singing, reading while walking across a busy street, psychology, languages and people. I am also pretty okay at writing.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am...unconventional?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love A LOT of Fantasy and Sci-Fi books. Claidi Journals, Recursion, Game of Thrones, to name a few. For shows, I love Firefly, Community, True Blood, Dexter and many other fantasy/sci-fi type shows.

Music taste is all over the place: Florence and the Machine to Mindless Self Indulgence to Johnny Cash to Otep to Daft Punk to Modest Mouse....and basically any genre.

I like food a little too much. It's why I am a little chunky. My favorite thing to eat is an extremely rare steak with garlic sauteeed mushrooms, peppers and onions on top of it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Discourse that reveals new ideas and perspectives
-Interesting People
-Fresh untouched paper and mechanical pencils.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. Absolutely everything. That too. And that over there! I am thinking about that too! I am a bit of a spaz...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I alternate from playing DnD, LARPing and attending fetish events.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am extremely and openly Bi, Poly and Kinky.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to know more about the Spokane Kink scene.
You are willing to be a cool and interesting person (whether or not you want to casually bang).
You are a dominant man who wants casual dating with no aim towards the long term. I like sex, but I like the chase more.
You are a subby girl who wants to play casually. I do not get my dom face on very often, but when I do, it is almost always with women and it can get somewhat sadistic.