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27 • Spokane, WA • Woman
I’m looking for
- Ages 18–80
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
- Last online
- Mar 21
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Strictly anything
- Agnosticism, and laughing about it
- Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
- Working on university
- Art / Music / Writing
- Less than $20,000
- Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
- Has dogs and has cats
- English (Fluently), Sign Language (Okay), German (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)
First off, I help lead several local kinky groups. First and foremost I am looking to connect new people to the local scene. So think of me as not just one possible connection, but many! I know people, dewd!
For myself, I am in a committed Polyamorous relationship. This means that I have a girlfriend but I can and do date other people. I live with the father of my child, but we are currently exploring other options. My girl and I are deeply connected, but don't see each other as often as I would like.
I am looking for dominant and intelligent FWBs, male or female. Must be intelligent, nerdy, and interesting to talk to.
Feel free to contact me with any questions!
Music taste is all over the place: Florence and the Machine to Mindless Self Indulgence to Johnny Cash to Otep to Daft Punk to Modest Mouse....and basically any genre.
I like food a little too much. It's why I am a little chunky. My favorite thing to eat is an extremely rare steak with garlic sauteeed mushrooms, peppers and onions on top of it.
-Discourse that reveals new ideas and perspectives
-Fresh untouched paper and mechanical pencils.
You are willing to be a cool and interesting person (whether or not you want to casually bang).
You are a dominant man who wants casual dating with no aim towards the long term. I like sex, but I like the chase more.
You are a subby girl who wants to play casually. I do not get my dom face on very often, but when I do, it is almost always with women and it can get somewhat sadistic.
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