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43 Cambridge City, IN Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 4:10am
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has cats

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My self-summary
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Hi, my name is Stephen. I do smoke, but my goal is to quit one of these days. I actually quit for 5 years recently but ended up starting up again last spring. I have one son (19) in college and another son (11) who lives with me. We love to watch and play sports, especially baseball. Our spring and summer is pretty busy with baseball. My youngest son plays and I coach for the local high school. I think I have a great sense of humor, although it tends to be goofy and sarcastic. I'm not looking for a caretaker or a mother, but rather someone who wants to be my "team mate". Partners, through good times and bad. Someone who I can think of as my best friend as well as my significant other. I'm a positive person, and I'm not looking for someone who is negative, or tends to see the down side of most situations. I typically don't show a lot of emotion on the outside, but that doesn't mean I don't feel emotions. I certainly do. I just tend to be more of the strong, leader type who is calm under pressure and that can come off as being "cold" sometimes. I'm very family oriented. I am not the type of guy looking for Barbie. I don't like fake, whether it be looks, or personality. Beauty, even physical beauty, is not something that can be created from make up and hair color. It may perhaps enhance beauty to a certain degree, but it can also take from natural beauty as well. I am an honest person, sometimes to a fault. And I expect that from my SO as well. Nothing good can come from lies and deception. I should mention this, because it's important, but I cannot relocate if a relationship gets to that point, for reasons I can explain to you if it comes up. I know it puts me at a disadvantage, but I have to stay here in my town (or very close).
What I’m doing with my life
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I have a journeymans card in the tool and die trade, but for the last 8 years I've been working in the office of a small machine shop here in town, where I'm the Outsourcing and Inside Sales Manager. I enjoy what I do, and it allows me to be somewhat flexible in my hours when needed for coaching or family needs that arise.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I think some of my good qualities are that I'm honest, hard working, intellegent, and funny. I think I have a great sense of humor, assuming sarcasm doesn't annoy you.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Well, from what people say, my eyes are one of the first things people notice. Apparently they are nice. I don't know, they're just eyes to me. They usually notice my sense of humor right away also.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love music and movies from the 80's and 90's. I'm an Italian food and meat & potatoes kind of guy. I like a lot of different types of movies and TV. Bottom line is, what you're doing doesn't matter that much if you're doing it with someone you like.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I assume they're not looking for things like air, water, etc. so we'll go with this: my family...honesty/loyalty...sports...a good job...the internet.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend a lot of time thinking about where I've been and where I'm going. I believe we should all continually be trying to improve ourselves, and the best way to do that is to learn from your successes as well as your mistakes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
If I'm not headed to a high school sporting event, then I might just stay home and relax, I might go out to eat or maybe just to the grocery.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Although I know I have some good qualities, I'm fairly insecure about myself. I generally don't come off that way, as my personality is more that of the typical Aries...the "confident, leader type", but deep down I'm a little insecure.
You should message me if
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If you're intersted, send me a message. I'm harmless enough. I'm not going to end up stalking you or anything like that! lol I'm not out to find a wife asap, I'm just out to find someone to begin a relationship with. If it last a week, fine. If it turns into the rest of my life, that's great too. Let the chips fall where they may.