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41 San Jose, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

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Asian, White, Other
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Okay), Irish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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DISCLAIMER-I don't smoke weed but I like funny signs. That pic was taken in Laos recently.

So my mom is Korean and old and just joined the facebook. I'm not sure how this happened but she added me and some of my family and friends. At first, I was afraid but she can barely turn on a computer so I thought no harm. Then I got the first broken English comment on a pic that already had lots of comments. Then she wrote on my wall, 'why you not married yet?'

I not only like travelling, I actually go. My last adventure was a month backpack trip to Vietnam and Laos. I've been to 28 countries and would rather spend money on adventure than fancy clothes. I often get asked where are you going next? I love kids-I'm an uncle to about 100 or so kids because most of my friends are rabbits. Reality-my sister has one year old twins-boy and girl and am so happy to be an uncle again. Last thing-I'm easily distracted by Gadgets and new techie stuff. It's called geeky but oh well.

So in all seriousness, I am a driven guy with lots of good things going on in life. I don't feel pressure to find someone, it's just that I feel that being single is somewhat unfullfilling. While I am funny and kind of a smart ass, I still have goals and a true desire to meet someone extraordinary. I hope to meet someone that I have a shared chemistry with that enjoys sports, traveling, eating, drinking, having fun and can be happy with her. Someone beautiful on the inside as well as the outside. Life doesn't have to be difficult. I want to find someone that would travel somewhere for a couple weeks without having to check email, messages, or who the bachelor picked. I like someone that can get away. If any of this interests you or want to learn more, drop me a message.
What I’m doing with my life
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The cliche "Life is Short" really hit me a couple years ago when a college buddy passed away from a very quick cancer. Since then, I've taken on the cliche by working so I can travel the world. I've taken a couple month long trips and plan to do that every year while I can. I'm interested in Cuba next.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Enjoying life, giving and accepting advice and seeing the humor in things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Smile, butt, eyes, arms, humbleness. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book-Naked by David Sedaris
Movies-Shawshank Redemption, Caddyshack
Shows-Orphan Black, NCIS, Chopped, River Monsters, Love it or List it, Bachelor
Bands-U2, OAR, DMB, Jack Johnson, Coldplay, Rage against the Machine, Weezer
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Health/well being
-Sense of adventure/humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The insecurities of getting older. Not just me but with family and others. My mom went through a triple bypass and my dad broke his leg this year. Kinda tough for sure.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends for dinner/drinks after a long week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm addicted to Crack. Trivia Crack that is. Don't download the App if think you're smart.
You should message me if
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Conversations and attraction starts with a smile in real life. If I smile/favorite you and you like my profile, let's connect. I don't want to waste anybody's time with trying to come up with a great pickup line that didn't work on you already.
You probably heard them all. If you have a sense of adventure but like nights relaxing at home, enjoy travelling, sports, movies, tv, music, and exploring-we might be a good match.