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42 San Jose, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–41
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:02am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Okay), Irish (Poorly)
My self-summary
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Hi fellow online daters....I think I'm like most people on here, I am interested in meeting someone that I'm compatible with, someone to feel loved by and someone that will take away feelings of being lonely. I believe that for the most part we all have a self worth and have a lot to offer but just haven't found what we're looking for. I'm here to become un-single. I do want to meet that special person that has similar ethics, values, interests and is someone looking for something real. Are you her?

Some of the life lessons I've learned that defines me:
-Be Honest
-Don't waste time.
-If you smile at someone, they might smile back.
-You may fall for the most unexpected person at the most unexpected time.
-Help those who need help.
-Humor can be found in the dodgeous places/situations.
-The worst decisions make the best stories.
-Never let your actual age dictate how old you feel. I still feel like I did when I was 28.
-Dont sweat the small stuff-Life is too short to hold grudges.
-Family is #1.
-Have Fun. I think the best compliment I've received is 'you always seem to have fun, no matter where you are'.

So in all seriousness, I am a driven guy with lots of good things going on in life. I don't feel pressure to find someone, it's just that I feel that being single is somewhat unfullfilling. While I am funny and kind of a smart ass, I still have goals and a true desire to meet someone extraordinary. I hope to meet someone that has a shared interest in sports, traveling, eating, drinking, having fun and living life to the fullest. Someone beautiful on the inside as well as outside. I've gone out with empty beauty before and it's not for me. Life doesn't have to be difficult. I don't do well with anger or insecurity because I'm a chill and easy going person. I want to find someone that would travel somewhere for a couple weeks that likes adventure vs sitting by the pool. I like someone that can get away. If any of this interests you or want to learn more, drop me a message...
What I’m doing with my life
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The cliche "Life is Short" really hit me a couple years ago when a college buddy passed away from a very quick cancer. Since then, I've taken on the cliche by working so I can travel the world. I've taken a couple month long trips and plan to do that every year while I can. I'm interested in Cuba or the Phillipines next.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Enjoying life, giving and accepting advice and seeing the humor in things.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Smile, butt, eyes, arms, humbleness. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Book-Naked by David Sedaris
Movies-Shawshank Redemption, Caddyshack
Shows-Game of Thrones, Newsroom, NCIS, Chopped, River Monsters, Love it or List it, Bachelor
Bands-U2, OAR, DMB, Jack Johnson, Coldplay, Rage against the Machine, Weezer

Currently reading - Understanding Women, A Guide For Dummies. I'm on page 7097.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-Health/well being
-Sense of adventure/humor
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Next travel spot. Phillipines anyone?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends for dinner/drinks after a long week.
You should message me if
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You have a real profile and live here in the bay area. So many fake profiles/scams, would like to meet someone not in Nigeria. Funny story about that....

Conversations and attraction starts with a smile in real life. If I smile/favorite you and you like my profile, let's connect. I don't want to waste anybody's time with trying to come up with a great pickup line that didn't work on you already.
You probably heard them all. If you have a sense of adventure but like nights relaxing at home, enjoy travelling, sports, movies, tv, music, and exploring-we might be a good match. Go Warriors!