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SpringSweet75

37 / F / Straight / Single

Matthews, North Carolina

Her Details

Last Online
May 22
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 5″ (1.65m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Political / Government
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I've lived in Charlotte for 12 years now. I love it here. I work as a GIS Analyst for a local county government.
I enjoy getting together with friends (although most of them are married, some with kids now), listening to and talking about music, walks around my neighborhood (Elizabeth), checking out local eateries, bars and coffee shops in my neighborhood and beyond, going to the movies, the beach, the mountains... NC in general! I went to Appalachian State, so I'm a mountain girl but I do love the beach as well.
As far as music goes, my favorite is Ryan Adams. I prefer the singer/songwriter type over most, but if I had to classify my favorite genre I guess it would be indie? That's a pretty big genre though, sorry! I love seeing live music though, and would love to have someone to see it with. The last great show I saw was last weekend, The xx at the Tabernacle in Atlanta. It was the 2nd time seeing them there and the show was absolutely great. But the best show I've seen recently in general was Bon Iver in Raleigh in 2011. Absolutely stunning.
I've recently rejoined a gym and am working hard to get back in shape and feel better overall. I also devote introspective time to myself in an effort to improve spiritually. Never stop improving!
I love going to Panthers games. I've never been to a Knights game, but I'm sure it would be fun. I've enjoyed the baseball games I have been to. I love fall, it's my favorite season. I love everything that comes with it.
My general goal is to find a partner with whom I click, someone with whom I can have fun and laugh, someone with whom I can experience new adventures, build a home and possibly start a family. I would love to find someone I can be completely comfortable with, who I compliment and who compliments me as well. I'm searching for that person who will always have my back and visa versa. A true partner in life.
Please save the drama for your mama! ~ I want nothing to do with any of that nonsense (and yes, guys can be crazy too, trust me). :) But if you like my profile and want to chat, send me a message! Hope to hear from you soon...
What I’m doing with my life
Right now, I'm just living & working, paying my bills, trying to have fun when possible. Spending time with my friends, checking out new music and live shows. I recently had to put my best friend down, my orange tabby Colby. I'm still recovering from that (it was 2 weeks ago) but I'm also ready to find a new faithful companion. My apartment feels empty without an animal there to love.
On the weekends, I sometimes spend time with my little sister, as in Big Brothers Big Sisters. My little is very sweet & funny. It's been fun getting outside of my comfort zone and helping a little girl out. Although she doesn't realize it but she helps me too.
But in the long run, I want to have a home that's full of warmth and love. I'd like to build that home with someone special.
The idea of "home" is so important to me, I had it tattooed on my left wrist last year.
I'm presently looking for a new place to live in Matthews to cut my work commute in half.
I’m really good at
- Great long term memory
- Making people laugh
- Knowing music facts
- Photography
- Making maps
- Interpersonal relationships
- taking care of my cat
- driving in Charlotte traffic (I just need to slow down)
- Taking it easy, enjoying my downtime
- Self realization
- Being a loving, committed, affectionate & supportive girlfriend if given the chance
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, my sense of humor, my warm nature.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite book ever: Catcher in the Rye
Favorite movies: Anything Wes Anderson, Good Will Hunting, Harold & Maude, Garden State, The Royal Tenenbaums, Coal Miners Daughter, Urban Cowboy, The Family Stone, etc.
Favorite shows: Modern Family, Cougar Town, The Office, Happy Endings, The Real Housewives...
Favorite food: Cheese. Especially wine & cheese.
Favorite music: How much space do I have left? Ryan Adams, Bon Iver, Jack White (and all incarnations of him), My Morning Jacket, Iron & Wine, Dave Matthews Band, Wilco, Bright Eyes, The xx, Death Cab for Cutie, Foo Fighters, Widespread Panic, Grateful Dead, REM, Mumford & Sons, Silversun Pickups, Phoenix...just to name a very few. Just starting to get into more electronic music...I love discovering new music!
The six things I could never do without
- The love & support of my family & friends
- My job
- My car
- Music (it heals the soul)
- NC mountains and NC beaches
- My iPhone
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Boys...

Just kidding, sort of. I think about animals often and how innocent and purely good they are. I think about all the garbage the human race produces and where it all actually ends up. I think about my future but try to stay grounded in the present.
On a typical Friday night I am
Used to be out at bars, but I'm kind of over that whole scene. I might be over at a friend's house or just staying home, cooking dinner and catching up on dvr'd shows from that week.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I sometimes become a kleptomaniac if I'm out and had a little too much to drink... I'm likely to steal a nice pint glass. I'm running out of room for them though!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 30–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You are ready to get past all the bs of single life & dating, and really get to know someone for the long term. And/or if you wanna chat about music!