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28 M Goldens Bridge, NY

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:14am
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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My name is Blake. I was named after the affluent Blake Carrington of the show Dynasty. Perhaps it was an attempt on the part of my mother to imbue me with a portent for financial success. I became a working artist. Sorry, mom.

I'm your garden variety neurotic yet well-meaning "creative professional." I compose and teach music. I animate and illustrate for independent games.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I serve 2 mistresses. Well, 2 metaphorical ones, anyway.

I am half of a startup video game company for which I am the one-man art department and composer. I trained in composing for 6 years, and have been a lifetime autodidact in illustration and animation. My life is my work. I really, REALLY love people who also have a "relationship" with their craft or career. I think it makes us whole. I think, if a person has nothing to build, nothing to leave behind, be that an empire or a doily, they begin relying on, and in many cases abusing, the attention, good faith and even love of others.

The short answer: I make video games.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Big anime green eyes. If you look close, they shake on a 2 frame loop when I'm stressed.

I've been told that my doctor during babyhood called me "high beams."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Story-Robert Mckee
The Greatest Show on Earth: the Evidence for Evolution-Richard Dawkins
Figure Drawing for All it's Worth-Andrew Loomis

Princess Mononoke
Carnal Knowledge
The Empire Strikes Back
The Incredibles
Throw Mama From the Train

Breaking Bad **the new gold standard in TV writing.
Death Note
Parks and Recreation

Pet Sounds-The Beach Boys
Stands for Decibels-The Db's
Odyssey and Oracle-the Zombies
Sweeney Todd-Stephen Sondheim
The Empire Strikes Back-John Williams
Super Mario Kart-Soyo Oka
Escaflowne-Yoko Kanno
Ma mere l'oye-Maurice Ravel
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I'm sure there are six things which are objectively the six most important things to humans, but we lack the perception or understanding to assess what they are. Anyway, my answer is those things.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
getting asked out by YOU!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You'd be more hard-pressed to find something private I'm NOT willing to admit.

BDSM. Crack the code.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Here are the types of people whom I like.

-People who are feminist.
-People who are skeptical.
-People who account for themselves.
-People who are kind(nice and kind are two different things. Nice is good, but kind is mandatory).
-People who have a realistic assessment of their strengths and limitations.
-People who don't make their chronic boredom other peoples' problem.
-People who don't use substances, or use them very moderately.
-People who respect other people enough to acknowledge that, to patronize a poorly reasoned point of view is to infantilize.
-People who have solid criteria for why they believe in or endorse the things they do, and can and will defend them with reason.
-People who are humble but not a doormat.
-People who are sex positive and CONSENT positive.
-People who are really kinky. Like...really kinky.
-People who have a career, or want a career.
-People who pursue a craft, vocationally or recreationally.
-People who ooze with earnest sincerity, but are irresistibly funny.

And here are some types of people whom I don't like.

-People who are entitled or spoiled.
-People who are boastful.
-People who endorse woo, snake-oil, or any manner of flim-flam. Especially those who use such things to profit from the gullible, bereaved, credulous or uninitiated.
-People who are not reasonable
-People who bully.
-People who cat call(which is bullying)
-People who are violent or coercive.
-People who conflate "counterargument" with "judgment."

Hey! Turns out I like way more people than I dislike. Statistically, we were meant to be, right?!