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25 M London, UK

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Graduated from university
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My self-summary
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Highly distractable, queer, geeky, kinky, anarchist, polyamorous ragamuffin dreamer
What I’m doing with my life
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Trying to have adventures, some big, some little. I get by quite happily by squatting and skipping and generally avoiding money as much as possible. This allows me the freedom to spend my time and energy where my passions lie which alternates between social justice projects, being engrossed in some new craft, reading and learning and just spending time with friends/lovers/strangers.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fixing anything using only inner-tubes and zip-ties, obsessing over and geeking out on one particular craft or thing I want to learn all about. I have a very short attention span, except when something seizes me in this way. Unfortunately I have not yet learned how to tame and direct this energy, I really don't have the power to choose the obsession, it chooses me :p
The first things people usually notice about me
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I asked the room I am in and the consensus was my eyes & my hugs
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I think that 'Godel, Escher & Bach: An eternal golden braid' and 'The Routledge Handbook to Postmodernism' have been possibly the most perspective-broadening books I have ever read. A graphic novel called 'Asterios Polyp' was one of the most beautiful. I found 'The Weather Underground' to be fairly inspirational and am generally quite into musicals. My favourite show is probably Les Miserables and my favourite albums are 'Happy Songs for Happy People' by Mogwai, 'Kid A' by Radiohead and 'Nrthndr' by Wisp. I am not vegan but I enjoy vegan cooking - A pot of veg n spice for 40 is always fun.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Solidarity - The support of a community makes all the difference when that surprise eviction or arrest comes along.

The waste culture - Landlords leave hundreds of thousands of buildings empty whilst people sleep on the streets, half of the world's food is thrown in to landfills whilst people starve. This is fucked up beyond all reason but it is this sad state of affairs that I currently depend on to survive.

The Internet - Although I do find that instant access to all of the information in the world can be somewhat distracting. Especially into Wikipedia.

Psychedelics - I actually don't use drugs very often but deeply value the experiences when I do. Acid is very very special to me.

Inner tubes - What can't you do with them?

People - I'm used to living with people and being near people a lot of the time. I start to get lonely and feel the burning of some object of flippant excitement that I need to share with another human being if I don't talk to anybody for more than a few hours.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The latest obsessions. At the moment it is brewing beer, queer insurrection and the Vagrancy Act 1824.

*Update* The history of property, an alternative, free, p2p internet, acoustic engineering.

*Update* essential oils, morpgs as mass sociology experiments, no borders Morocco, the grim spectres of fascism and death that will, in time, take us all.

*update* organic chemistry, banging my head against hegemony

Living in a post-apocalyptic world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Honestly, I'm usually unaware which day of the week it is.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I love BDSM and experimenting with sex and power exchange within a framework of active consent.
You should message me if
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You want to hang out, geek out, do a craft together, have some kind of novel sex together, perpetrate some fantastical crime together, cuddle, watch adventure time, play chess or scrabble or teach me to play go.
You are self-aware, honest and kind.
I'm generally not that interested, sexually in single cis-men at the moment. women and trans-of-every-flavour may apply, I'd also be open-minded about couples. :)