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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 21-32
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 11
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Atheism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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I'm a Midwestern-turned-Cali-turned-Midwestern transplant to St. Louis. Went to Wash U back in the day, then lived in and loved San Francisco, then moved back to the Lou for work a couple years ago. I love exploring the city and trying new bars and restaurants, as long as they're not too stuffy and self-impressed (okay, sometimes even if they are).

I like being active and competitive, but I'm not that guy on your softball team who takes the whole thing too seriously. I like bourbon and am trying to develop a palate for it. I like an urban lifestyle, so I live downtown, but I'll probably move somewhere else soon -- you get stale if you stay in the same place too long!

I cannot be trusted with chocolate milk or Imo's Pizza. I love to travel, and wish I had time and money enough to do it more (goals, goals). I miss snowboarding fiercely (stupid flat Midwest), and take a trip or two to binge on it every winter. I find doing dishes oddly soothing.
What I’m doing with my life
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I manage the customer service team at a small startup that makes business software that's too boring to go into detail about. Startup lyfe yo. (But seriously, it's interesting and usually fun being a part of St. Louis' mini-startup boom.)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Giving massages, or so I'm told. I'm pretty sure that it's easy to be good at giving massages (it's not like I'm an expert on muscular anatomy), but I'll take the accolades if I can get them, I guess.
The first things people usually notice about me
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This question is weird because it asks me what's obvious about me, which is a weird thing to have to spell out. Anyway, people normally notice that I'm tall, wry, and sarcastic. Hopefully they also think I'm smart and stuff.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I don't read as much as I should or as much as I used to. Trying to fix that. Historically, though: Infinite Jest. Anything by Haruki Murakami. I'm starting the Welcome to Night Valen novel as I write this.

Shows: I watch my beloved St. Louis Cardinals a lot during the baseball season. Otherwise, I'm the guy who doesn't get everyone's Arrested Development references. Currently the only contemporary shows I'm caught up on are...Game of Thrones and Sherlock? I guess that's it. I don't hate TV or anything, I just don't make time for it normally.

Music: Used to be into rock in my angsty youth, but I've mellowed out a lot. Lately: Bastille, Hozier, Royal Blood, Everything Everything, X Ambassadors, Nine Inch Nails, Stromae, Muse, and an unabashed love of most Top 40s pop.

Food: I love sandwiches and Korean food. Bibimbap is my desert island food. Mushrooms are gross. I'll try most anything -- and people who won't weird me out. It's a big world full of lots of tasty food!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why I can't type a goddamn em dash with a normal button on my keyboard. It's almost 2016! Give me an em dash key, you bastards!

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On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully eating some sort of delicious food at a restaurant with friends. Failing that, hopefully hanging with said friends later on, either at someone's house, or at a bar, or whatever. I am likely to be drinking, because I do that "socially," like it says over on the side there.

If it's a quieter night, maybe a movie or cooking dinner or something more low-key. I suppose I might be on a date, also. That's what this thing is for, right? You should probably message me so that I can be on a date, maybe.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I find writing messages on OkCupid totally exhausting. I have a habit of writing things that are way too long and then overediting them, and I have to fight to keep that in check on OKC. So if you got a message from me, I'm probably napping now. Shit's stressful and I overthink it like whoa.

That's not really that private, but fuck you, go on a date or two with me if you want my intimate secrets.
You should message me if
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You're an active explorer-at-heart type person who likes to wander around town and try new places. If you like to have a good time in either hiking boots or high heels, we'll get along.

Or if you're just really into podcasts and would like to talk about the podcasts that you subscribe to for a long time.