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My self-summary
Perspective is everything for me. I am optimistic. I'm a high achiever, constantly setting goals for myself. I like to find meaning in the world. My true purpose in life is expressing who I am completely without judgement and to be fulfilled in any direction life may take me. I am my best when I can be open, creative, and think about the possibilities. If this is what you're looking for, I'm your man.

I've accomplished a lot during my life and have the drive to do more. I consider myself well-rounded. I'm a leader and want to make an impact on people's lives. My top five values are family, integrity, personal growth, education, and positive relationships.

I am originally from western New York. I enjoy traveling a lot, as I've traveled to San Salvador, Paris, Dublin, Moscow, St. Petersburg, and all over USA and parts of Canada.

I am very active playing sports, competing against people in activities, and participating in outdoor activities (e.g., camping, hiking, canoeing, rowing, boating). I'm usually up for a thrill at times as I have gone skydiving, whitewater rafting, scuba diving. I enjoy most, if not all, sports (e.g., soccer, basketball, tennis, swimming, skiing). I played NCAA D3 Varsity Basketball and Soccer. I'm a nice balance between being planned and spontaneous (e.g., looking for new experiences).
What I’m doing with my life
Right now, I also work as a selection and assessment consultant at a utilities company. Also, I'm pursuing my doctorate in business psychology and currently have two master degrees. I teach graduate courses part time as a professor.

On a side note, I ran a half marathon and a triathlon. I'm training for more.
I’m really good at
Anything I put my mind and energy toward.
The first things people usually notice about me
I usually get:
"You're so tall"
"You're smart."
"You must work out."
"There's something more about you."
"You have this presence when you walk into a room."
I'm genuine, considerate, kind, friendly, loyal, honest, ambitious (e.g., always making goals for myself), outgoing, adventurous, and educated. INTJ.

I love to laugh and enjoy time with the people i'm with. I look for avenues to laugh (e.g., comedy club, shows).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: Meet Joe Black, Good Will Hunting (movies that make you think or experience intense "good" emotions), X-men series, Saving Private Ryan, and Forrest Gump.

Books: 1984, The Handmaid's Tale (utopian/dystopian novels), Hamlet, written works by modern philosophers (e.g., John Locke, Rousseau).

Music: I enjoy listening to all types of music and it depends on my mood. Mostly 80's, rock, and country.

Shows: Quantum Leap, (Current) Parenthood, Revenge, and The Mentalist.

Food: Anything really. I enjoy spicy foods.
The six things I could never do without
*Experiencing something new - I enjoy having new experiences.
*Traveling to new places and experiencing new cultures - There are many places on this world and much to discover.
*Athletics - I enjoy playing competetive sports and activities.
*Food - There's always interesting tastes with food.
*Family and friends - They're always there to support me in my endeavours.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How to make my life as valuable and unforgettable as possible. Enhancing my perspective of the world. I believe a wealthy man is not made by material wealth, but of the relationships he creates, experiences he gains, and the knowledge he acquires.

On a more simple, fun note, what I can do next weekend :).
On a typical Friday night I am
Dancing (ballroom), watching movies, spending time with friends, music concerts or musicals (favorite is Wicked).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm willing to share anything, even my biggest, darkest secrets :).
You should message me if
You're someone who enjoys being active, having meaningful and fun conversations, and sharing life experiences. I would love to share it with you.

*I live a healthy lifestyle. I enjoy being active and I want to enjoy the activities with you. I make the effort to stay healthy and fit and I would like you to do the same.
*Be open and honest.
*Supportive and loving.
*Engaging, meaningful conversations.