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29 Astoria, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 22–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 11:00am
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body type
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Not big on using adjectives to describe myself so… I'll change the subject. I've lived all over, LA and NY are the best I've found, although Portland was awesome too. I work hard for what I want in life. I'm easy-going about small stuff but passionate about the important things in life.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Aspirations: Writer - yes thats sounds cliche, especially in this town I know, but I don't just talk about doing things in life - I follow through.

Day Job: Producer for the show Impractical Jokers.

I've had a plethora of interesting, dumb and downright bizarre jobs in my life from road manager on a tour bus to building windmills in the Baja to driving an eighteen-wheeler in Alaska. This isn't a pathetic attempt to woo you or to convince you that I'm some ultra badass because I'm not. I have fears like everyone else. But what I am is different.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Random conversations with strangers
Updating my Spotify list
Discussing issues that effect this world
Listening to NPR (if you haven't listen to Serial do it, now)
Finding interesting and unusual places
Getting things done
Time Travel
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height 6'5"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Birdman, Frances Ha, Layer Cake, The Ides of March, Senna, The Cove, House of Cards, Breaking Bad, Portlandia, Drive, Exit through the Gift shop, Dogtooth

Black Mirror, Game of Thrones, True Detectives, House of Cards, The Killing, Any docs produced by Vice

Between Here and the Yellow Sea
A Visit from the Goon Squad
Winesburg Ohio
A Confederacy of Dunces
The Master and the Margarita
Too many to name honestly.

Please note I dislike Ayn Rand. That doesn't mean I'm not open to other view points I just really abhor her ideology.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Game of Thrones
Intelligent conversation
Red Wine and expensive whiskey
A good book
Learning something new
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If time travel existed, wouldn't have someone already come back in time and given us a time machine?

If the universe started with a Big Bang, then what was the spark?

Why do they still let Tyler Perry make movies?

How many licks does it take to get to the center of a of a tootsie roll pop? Honestly, I want to know.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I might be out or might be staying in. I prefer to go out on Sunday nights or during the week. I have nothing against Friday or Saturday but I don't like screaming at people during a conversation, while being smashed into a small room, paying 15 dollars a drink.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I sleep naked :p
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you find ice cream trucks with their lullaby music creepy.

after making a meaningful connection online you will actually be down to meet up after a week or two. I'm not interested in chatting for a week or two only to have the communication just stop. Play those games with boys, not men.

you aren't going to kill me in my sleep... yes guys worry about that kind of stuff too.

you want to laugh and goof around as well as have deep conversations about things bigger than our daily lives.

You're not a gold digger.