Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a geeky, Dom that is emotionally and intellectually
intelligent. I'm honest even when it's hard and loyal to a fault -
but slow to trust. Once you're in, you're in tho.
I want chemistry and passion in my life along with some practical
If you're a druggie, fuck off, if you're a hippy, great, but that's
no excuse to stink and ignore common standards of societal hygiene.
I need a woman equal parts girly and badassed. I date, strong,
beautiful, independent women who do things like weld and climb
mountains and whatever they want outside of the bedroom but crave a
firm hand in the bed at least a hearty % of the time.
I will never, ever date you if you don't take care of yourself:
Finances, body, appearance, basic life shit. I'm not interested in
anyone's excuses, and I'm definitely not all about that bass.
I value loyalty and I eschew cowardice. Open your body to me and I
will show you how to conquer your fear, shame and doubt, from which
all other negative emotions stem.
I'm sorry about your past, but I want to live in your future. None
of the books you've read can prepare you for an actual man, not a
boy, but a real life man.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Managing world class websites for a world class company and
basically kicking ass at it. Travelling for business & planning
my next international trip.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Working my ass off for a greater goal. Occasionally making pretty
girls forget their own names and lose count. Being wryly
egotistical while still managing to be a great listener, a caring
friend and a staunch ally.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My voice. It's deep and resonant. Barring that, my eyes. They are
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends. Passion. Touch. Sensuality. Adventure. Coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where to put a hardpoint in the doorframe of the master bathroom.
The next thing on my path to personal mastery. How to best help the
people I care about. How to balance venerating and supporting the
feminine goddess and being a priviliged cis-gendered white male Dom
who likes to whip a gal's bum red from time to time. It's a toughy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out with friends. There's usually a birthday party of some sort.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a Dom. I think tying up willing women and spanking them red and
gasping is the best foreplay ever.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're a bi woman who is 20-30 years old, is geeky (about whatever,
just be passionate about something) and is in shape. I am attracted
to a dancer's build and a down to earth, pragmatic attitude with a
flair for scrupulous kindness. You're a sub in bed and Wonder Woman
otherwise. You know what the 5 love languages are. You tell it like
it is and your words and actions match: you're not a flake or a
manipulator. You'd like to fall in love.
Who are you looking for?
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