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37 M Kirkland, WA

My Details

Last Online
May 29
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Trying to quit
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from space camp
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I'm a geeky, poly Dom that is emotionally intelligent. I'm honest even when it's hard and loyal to a fault - but slow to trust. Once you're in, you're in tho.

Here's a twist - I'd prefer to kiss at the start of the first date - I'm serious. I want chemistry and passion in my life and that's the best way to find out without expectations. Think you can handle that level of intense spontaneity? Few can. Those are the kind of people I'm attracted to. I'm not on here for hook-ups, I just know how critical it is to really be into your partner if the long term is ever going to work. Life is short. If you're hot, let's make out and talk for hours and hours until we know if we're friends, lovers or brief connections.
What I’m doing with my life
Managing world class websites for a world class company and basically kicking ass at it. Planning my next international trip.
I’m really good at
Working my ass off for a greater goal. Making pretty girls forget their own names and lose count. Being wryly egotistical while still managing to be a great listener, a caring friend and a staunch ally.
The first things people usually notice about me
My voice. It's deep and resonant. Barring that, my eyes. They are ocean blue.
The six things I could never do without
Friends. Passion. Touch. Sensuality. Adventure. Coffee.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The perfect Trio relationship. Where to put a hardpoint in the doorframe of the master bathroom. The next thing on my path to personal mastery. How to best help the people I care about. How to balance venerating and supporting the feminine and being a priviliged cis-gendered white male Dom. It's a toughy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends. There's usually a party of some sort.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm a Dom. I think tying up willing women and spanking them until they're red and gasping is the best foreplay ever.
I’m looking for
  • Bi girls only
  • Ages 20–30
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You're a bi, poly woman who is 20-30 years old, is geeky (about whatever, just be passionate about something) and is in shape. I am attracted to a dancer's build and a down to earth, pragmatic attitude with a flair for scrupulous kindness. You're a sub in bed and Wonder Woman otherwise. You know what the 5 love languages are. You tell it like it is and your words and actions match: you're not a flake or a manipulator. You'd date a couple - or be part of a couple that dates bi women together. The idea of a long term trio relationship sounds like heaven on earth and you could imagine raising a family like that one day.