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36 Oakland, CA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 30-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 23
Relationship Type
5' 7" (1.70m)
Body Type
Average build
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I've been to 23 foreign countries and yet never been to NYC.

I've whipped up thanksgiving dinner in a West African village, using only a toaster oven... AND can expertly order room service... and speaking of food, I will probably be willing to split a bacon wrapped hot dog at the end of a night out, just FYI.

I'm equally down with underground hip hop AND jazz at Birdland Social Club.

I yearn to wear eyeglasses for stylistic reasons, but sadly have 20/20 vision.

Potential deal breakers about me:

I usually have some cat hair on my pants, I am not an expert bike rider and I tend to leave a trail of bobby pins.

Other things about me:

I've loved music festivals before music festivals were competing with other music festivals. And don't worry, at said festivals you'll see me wearing a vintage Adidas jacket rather than a culturally appropriated head dress.

I taught myself to sew pants at 9 years old. Now I'm designing lingerie...ooh lala.

I recently saw a meme that said: "Why pay $16 for an item when you can pay $96 in craft supplies and make it yourself?" This very much resonated with me.
What I’m doing with my life
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I fill my life with work, play, exercise, self-love (yoga, massage, submerging myself in warm pools of water....ahhhh), making art and just simple relaxation. I am an educator, networker, artist and community organizer. Most of my jobs and projects have focused on improving communities through art and environmental education. Currently, my 10-6 consists of finding ways to support refugees as they transition into life in the US.

I love California, however, living and working in other cultures also satisfies my soul, so I do a lot of traveling....sometimes just short trips, other times I'll take root for awhile. I hope to find a partner that wants the same balance- between life in the US and abroad.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Elaborate projects. Creative ideas. Finding awesome opportunities to live and travel abroad.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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-Mistry, Steinbeck, Irving, Bukowski, Marquez, Sedaris
-The Jerk, Amile, Capote, anything from Mira Nair or Wes Anderson
-Project Runway, Arrested Development, Colbert, Louis CK
-Underground hip hop, loungy house music, funk, soul, folk
-Burmese, Japanese, French, fancy vegetarian
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Needle and thread
Live music
Tea or coffee
Getting lost in jungles (urban or tropical)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
projects, adventures, friends
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
you're good at travel, have style and like it when I wrap my arm around yours when we walk at night.