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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 46-61
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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Last online
Today – 8:31am
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
6' 1" (1.85m)
Body Type
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
My self-summary
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Laid back and funny middle-aged white guy. Lover of words and word play. Physically active and fit. Liberal atheist, but not religious about it (that's what 12 years of Catholic schoolin' will do fer ya.) Enjoy NPR and PBS, arts, politics, culture, and athletics--not much of a golfer, but I do have clubs. Biking, kayaking, and cross country skiing, along with regular workouts and yard work help me keep my life in balance. Movie faves trend independent but can enjoy a good blockbuster once in a while. Enjoy most music well played and especially live--Lansing has a great music scene for my tastes. I'm an enthusiastic dancer when moved by the beat. And at this late stage (pun alert) I've auditioned for a few roles with some local theater companies and have been lucky enough to have been cast in some terrific productions--I played the pervy boyfriend in August: Osage County in 2013. Loved the movie.

I'm attracted to smart women who laugh easily. Fit and athletic with minimal drama/complications works for me, too. (I'm afraid distance of more than 75 miles or so adds to the complications column.) While I have tolerance for a wide range of viewpoints and can debate just about anything with anyone, I prefer a woman who has a more liberal outlook on politics and policy.
What I’m doing with my life
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I do communications and event planning for a state association of human service agencies. Like to think my work helps them do more for people in need.
I’m really good at
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Composting and eulogies. Coincidence?
The first things people usually notice about me
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Resemblance to a former president from Arkansas.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My Netflix queue is mostly independent and foreign films with quite a few documentaries, and a coupla commercial hits. Still enjoy movies at the theater, but mostly on five dollar Tuesdays. Musical taste is pretty eclectic, but the basis is formed by Springsteen, U2, Paul Simon, Elvis Costello, Lucinda Williams, REM, and of a more recent vintage, the Black Keys and Jack White. Listen to classical all day at work and enjoy a symphonic performance once in a while. Enjoy jazz, world beat, soul/blues, too. On tv, mostly sports and news, but will happily burn an hour with Antiques Roadshow. HBO, Jon Stewart, and Stephen Colbert give me hope for the otherwise vast wasteland.

I'm selectively omnivorous when it comes to eating and dining out. Most cooking at home is simple: stir frying and roasting are my favorite approaches. Try to raise a few veggies every summer in a little garden patch...good luck this year with Swiss chard and string beans.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
NPR, music, my bicycles, leafy greens, sunshine, dental floss.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The condition of the planet and its inhabitants.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Looking for a good live band in the Lansing area.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I sometimes work out in my underwear. In my basement not at the gym! I get home after work and when I take off my pants and shirt, hey, I'm already in shorts and a tee shirt. So I put on my sneakers and off I go. Willing to seek counseling if it's a deal breaker.
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You should contact me if you wanna say hi.