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a reader, goofy, and hmmmmm

My self-summary Propose an edit

Contentment is important. If I am content where I am then I will be content where I am going. I am content with where I am only because I know that I continue to grow. If I stagnate I die.

Cargo shorts are the best, pockets are the best accessory.

People come first. I will not compete with the TV. I would rather play cards talking and joking around until 2am then watch TV. Real life only occurs when we interact with each other. I would rather talk in person then on the phone. There is so much communication lost when talking on the phone.

I find joy more valuable than happiness. Joy comes from within while happiness comes from without. I can't always choose my circumstances but I can always choose the attitude I have within what ever circumstance I am in.

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

I am preparing for a new job that will be sending me out of the country. I read a great deal and enjoy most literary genres. I enjoy walking both the Burke-Gillman and around Green Lake. Camping is what the summer in the Northwest is all about. Dinner parties with the right combination of company, food and wine are an essential part of life. I am learning Arabic and Farsi, both for my job.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

Cooking. I cook for who ever is willing to eat. I am currently experimenting with different kinds of sea foods. Salmon, catfish and talapia are all the menu currently.

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

I don't know.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

Right now the books are, Gentleman's Blood, House of the Scorpion, Human Smoke and Deep Survival.

Funny Bones, Forrest Gump, The Truman Show, The Triplets of Bellville and Stop Making Sense top the list for movies.

Obviously the Talking Heads factor in. Elvis Perkins, Eric Bibb, Angelique Kidjo, Paul Simon, Leonard Cohen, Anjani Thomas, Lucky Dube, Sam Phillips, Alpha Blondi, The Weepies, Fire Water, She & Him and The Decemberists.

Some insight into my television habits, I thoroughly enjoy the House Series' on PBS - Frontier House, Manor House, etc...

Places I frequent are Grinders, Dukes, Ipanema Grill, Luna Bella, Broadway Grill, and Caspers.

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

Family, friends, books, community, love and sleep

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

Two years ago it was about consumption and responsibility. Last year it was about possession and ownership. This years it's about the social contract and our changing social structure.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

In or out with friends, or reading.

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

Yeah, right. Okay, I'm ambidextrous.

You should message me if Propose an edit

If you're already content with your own life, even if your life is a mess, and enjoy the company of someone who is as well. If you're seeking friendship and joy. I'm not looking to "hook-up". Having something to say and the strength to say it is a good thing. Pushovers need not reply. Respect is important.

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Stabh: 1660 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 0" (1.82m).
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
N/A
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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